Well that sux. I hope she blicked him and didn't respond. My husband has a child with his AP so there is contact and I hate it. It's never much but I still hate it.

It's very, very, very common that men contact their former APs. In fact there is a saying,"they always come back".

I'm also going to tell you when you are trying to turn your life around and they randomly contact you it can be very scary- almost like 'will this ever go away'.

It's very commendable she told you. She's relying on you for support and it also means she is sincere.

Ugh, sorry for the trigger. I agree with shoretimenow that it's a good sign that she told you. She should block him at minimum. If you want her to, she could always respond in front of you that she's working on her marriage and doesn't want to be contacted, then block. Obviously, don't assault him. It's not worth messing up your own life.

I like the bat idea

Why is there any social media? Get rid if it

Or just openly share it, if it is the only lifeline between an anxious and depressed woman and her healthy friend connections as well.

Agreed, CaliRN! I came to rant about how FB was evil on my journal, but then realized how dumb that is since I don't even use it anymore. To my knowledge, FB still has blocking capabilities. Wifey should just block ole boy so as to not even have to deal with the chance of him coming back or trying to skulk around her stuff.

Or delete FB. Because it's da debil.