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- This information may have been posted before and I missed it (during one of my long breaks from the site). I got this from the website outofthefog.net in the toolbox section. While many aspects of the information is relevant to many of us, (and I'm...
- A good friend sent this to me yesterday. I thought it was an amazing statement and wanted to share:I refuse to stay in something that isn't real.I'm through pretending.I'm through fighting alone.You're only real when it benefits you.You only care...
- So, I've been trying to figure out how to approach this subject without sounding any more crazy and pathetic than I feel right now, but I can't think of any way but to put it out there. At our first session (the first in a long time anyway), the...
- God I'm feeling pretty selfish right now, the last few days I've been posting like those people on Facebook who publish everything from what they ate for dinner to what cute thing their kid said. I'm sorry but I can't seem to help myself!My issue is...
- I did the intake by phone yesterday so my girls can start therapy at crisis intervention. The therapist was refreshingly straight forward, even if it did sing just a little to hear her initial assessment. Basically she told me that they will gladly...
- So this morning I had to listen to a 30 minute lecture on why I have to be so prideful that I will let my kids go without just because I am angry with him. This then became a rant (a calm one no less) about how the whole problem with our...
- So I was just told that people see right through me. No matter what kind oflies i tell them they can see how badly I've managed my life and that the problems are all me. After all he's done just fine with his life and with no thanks to me. Oh the...
- Okay, is this it? Seriously my give a damn is malfunctioning....nothing there. And he is seriously ticked off because I now refuse anything he's trying to give me. At this point I would rather go to the food pantry to feed my kids than take an fing...
- So, I apologize in advance...this is gonna be pretty long. This is more for my personal anger, but I thought it may help others to see if this fits their abusers. While it was a painful realization to come to, it has helped me to put things in...
- Okay, admittedly not all of today was great. My hand feels SO much better, starting to blister now, but not really hurting at all which is incredible! I went to see the counselor at crisis intervention again, she set up for my girls to see the kid's...
- So tonite when I got home from work I decided that the girls and I would make some homemade egg rolls. While frying the first one, I took the tongs to flip it, it started to roll back into the grease and for some idiotic reason I tilted my hand to...
- So, back in August of 2012 my wages started being garnished due to a judgment that a previous landlord or OURS won by default. This is not the first time this has happened since we've been together, but somehow I always end up holding the bag...
- I have a curious question, and I may simply be being paranoid. Some comments and actions that my H has made in recent (within the last couple years, although they seem to be escalating in frequency and weirdness), as well as the fact that he has...
- We haven't spoken really since before Christmas. Saturday was my son's 19th birthday, so he and his girlfriend were at the house having cake and ice cream when my H showed up early (it was only 8 PM--really early for him). I guess I should have told...
- So, holidays are always hostile and tense in our family. The past few years I have struck out with the determination that I am not going to allow him to ruin my kids' holidays, no matter the cost to my sanity or my wallet, but it seems he just keeps...