bananna

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i'm so stressed out

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his aunt passed away a few days ago. while i feel deeply for his loss, i am scared for myself. there has already been one episode tonight where that look came over his face, the one where i expect hatred to drip off of it, and fear the harsh words....
i find this appalling

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i am realizing that we live in a world of invalidation, based upon a closed-minded concept of normality. i just read a post in the personality disorder support group about a woman with bpd that thinks that her feelings of love are not real, based...
not sure what to do here

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we get back on the subject of how i told him about my past. when i ask him to stop telling me what i did to him, he changes it to telling me he feels like i did this to him.i want to ask him to simply tell me how it makes him feel without blame, but...
adaptation and compromise for all us SOBs

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even though i may think (emphasis on think) that my problems-- my emotional and internal dysfunctions-- may not be all that bad, i'm realizing that in order to be in a relationship with a pwbpd i need to seriously work on them. so i have to maintain...
there really isn't

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much activity on this site.although it's still fulla good folks.
pre-diagnosis experience

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my boyfriend most likely has bpd. i didn't really know what was going on in our relationship, some of the accusations didn't make sense. i finally started researching disorders and when i came across bpd it started to make more sense to...
his journal

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my boyfriend who most likely has bpd went out of town. we are in the midst of breaking up, partially because he says that he doesn't believe that he is showing signs of mental illness.he left his journal on the couch. i looked at it sitting there,...
his journal

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my boyfriend who most likely has bpd went out of town. we are in the midst of breaking up, partially because he says that he doesn't believe that he is showing signs of mental illness.he left his journal on the couch. i looked at it sitting there,...
things i need to keep in mind

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while i may believe that my SO's fear that i am going to abandon him is irrational, it is still very real to him.
his denial or my delusion?

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so my SO came across the book i was recommended on bpd. obviously he was offended. fortunately, though, he admitted to having borderline tendencies (he's a psych major), and actually listened to what i had to say about what i've learned about the...
peace and quiet

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just curious, how long do/did your peaceful times last? because sometimes my partner and i can go for a few weeks without an incident, even though i'm still cautious, and he still gets irritable about small things. and then sometimes it just seems...
need help w/ SO who may have bpd

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hi there. this is a repost of something i accidentally posted in the wrong spot, just in case anyone notices...i feel awfully bad writing this, as though i am being deceitful, but i fear that my boyfriend suffers from a mental illness that may be...
approaching my bf to consider seeing a therapist

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hi there. i feel awfully bad writing this, as though i am being deceitful, but i fear that my boyfriend suffers from a mental illness that may be bpd. the mere mention of anything he considers negative and associates with possible abandonment or a...

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