bananna
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- so the bf got an apartment in portland after panicking for a week that he'd never find one. i've been asking him to send me a picture of the inside for the past couple days, just cuz i'm excited for him and curious to see what the place looks like....
- but some of the lyrics from fake plastic trees by radiohead really hit home about my relationship with my ex wbpd. actually, a lot of radiohead lyrics coincide with these sentiments....anyone else a radiohead fan?
- i am completely moved out. i am only downstairs in a kitty-corner unit, but he is leaving the state in the middle of next month, so we won't really see each other much, and pretty soon not at all...i feel kind of anxious, had a dream that he slept...
- i put in so much effort to try and understand him, to try to meet his needs, and the more i did, the more i was sacrificing my own needs. i promised him that i would stay, and then i broke that promise. because he continually disappeared and...
- sometimes i feel caught between disliking myself for my codepency and respecting and admiring myself for the unconditional compassion i have for my loved one. part of the beating myself up over the codependency i think stems from hearing about how...
- has anyone ever experienced living with and/or loving someone who clearly has disorder that adamantly refuses to admit they have one?
- anybody tired of me talking about my relationship yet? he's been isolating himself from me for four days. tonight he's coming home and says he's going to sleep on the couch. my problem is that i really don't want him to come home. i'm dreading it. i...
- i am stuck on the outside, looking in. i keep trying to understand what he is going through, but i really have no idea. although never diagnosed, he clearly has bpd, and i am doing what i can to be there for him. i love him so deeply, and i feel for...
- so i guess in his eyes i fucked up. that's what he's telling me. maybe asking about how he feels about having a friend that i was once involved with briefly eight years ago (and we are still friends but never were anything more, it was a drunken...
- a part of me has never allowed myself to experience the full process of the grief that came with losing my cousin (she was my best friend and sister). i did mourn her for a long time, but then for whatever reason, at a certain point, i stopped the...
- i'm not getting them unless i click the watch topic button. but i have all the setting selected in my membership options. does anyone else have this problem?
- http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/stop-walking-eggshells/201108/football-player-brandon-marshall-the-new-face-borderline-personalsomebody on the personality disorder support group posted it in a discussion about celebrities with BPD. Brandon...
- i wonder if there are any celebrities that have been diagnosed with a personality disorder. especially songwriters, because there would be songs that have reached out to so many people.does anyone know of any?
- i don't want my boyfriend to blame himself for all our relationship problems, but it would be nice if he could actively recognize that it takes significant effort on my part to be exposed to his behavior. he doesn't even need to get any kind of...
- here are some support sites for people in relationships with...