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So things have seemed to be pretty good. Other than some financial stress, my wife and I have been spending a lot of quality time together and getting along well. Or so I thought. Last night I was...

I really haven't had much to report lately. My wife has been very engaged in our marriage and seems genuinely happy to do so. I can tell there is a significant amount of relief in her mind having...

This weekend had potential. My reconciling wife and I have lots of plans,  most fun. Started the Saturday morning bright and early watching my youngest in a little league baseball game with my...

I was asked for an update by one off my friends so I'm posting an excerpt from a message sent to another friend. I can't thank you all enough for the interest and support.  My Easter weekend was a...

Yesterday, I experienced some small setbacks. My wife had decided to call out sick from work due to headaches. My second-guessing nature right now has me worried it was due to feeling unhappy...

Even though I occasionally manage to irritate my wife by being too sensitive, she is still showing signs she is committed to us. I have heard her laugh more in the last couple weeks than the past...

I am such a freaking barometer to my wife's mood!  It is so exhausting. The slightest indication she is stressed, frustrated, tired, sad, angry,... hell even menstruating and my blood pressure goes...

I know I'm in a different situation than most going through separation or divorce issues. I'm still living with my wife and she is making an effort. Her effort is more of a wait and see if something...

After a day of my mind tormenting my heart at work with thoughts of my wife's recent distancing herself from me,  I returned home from work to help my youngest son on homework. Then I got him ready...

Why did I let my emotional shields down? I should know better but once again I let my heart believe we were somehow winning.  Yesterday was a day I will never forget. After a week off work...

Things are improving. She wants to spend time with me and smiles a lot. She is transferring her money from her bank account back into "ours." She is trying to sub lease the apartment she has that she...

So things have improved again for me. My wife is talking about canceling the separation again. I won't ever rest on that,  though. I have to admit, I'm working so hard on saving and repairing this...

So Yougospam really hit home with me on the comment about my last post. All the words were so very valid. After thinking,  this is the only way in me to respond, and I do this with the utmost...

So yesterday was really nice. My wife and I spent the entire day together. We ran errands,  shopped for clothes, and had wonderful lunch and dinner out. Anywhere we walked in the beautiful weather,...

We are still moving in the right direction. She is telling me she is happier and that she loves me, but the future is still a question. This morning she told me she has to figure out how not to keep...