Somehow I've got to get us to marriage counseling
We are still moving in the right direction. She is telling me she is happier and that she loves me, but the future is still a question. This morning she told me she has to figure out how not to keep going back to the place of desperately needing to escape. I told her that it happens to everyone but she needs to trust the good feelings will always return to cast out the bad. That is the commitment part of our marriage. She is still not reassured and the separation is still a real possibility. I wish she would consider our going to marriage counseling. It doesn't have to be a bad thing. I think people believe it never works or is somehow admitting you are doing something wrong.