idontmakeherhapyenuf

Let me start out by telling you that things between my wife and me seem to have been improving over the past couple of weeks. She has shown interest in spending time with me, and has been happier...

In just a few hours, my wife and I will be participating in our first ever marriage counseling session. I am anxious to say the least. Heck, I am shaking in my shoes. My active imagination has played...

Had a good extended weekend with my wife visiting our oldest son in another state. She was happy, friendly, and said she wants to work on the marriage. She even started reading the Divorce Remedy...

Warning: The content of this journal will be viewed as controversial by many and even rejected by some. I write this only to put my thoughts, feelings, and beliefs into words to process some of the...

Occasionally I write feelings down and save them in my phone. Today I was just looking around in my phone and stumbled across a letter I wrote my wife but never sent in June. A couple of months later...

Every time I feel my wife has decided to leave, she flips a switch and acts like everything is in my head. I question myself and wonder if I'm so damaded from the infidelity that my fears run away...

Wow, it has been a long time since I last posted. The things that have happened... and the stories I could tell! There has been heartbreak, anguish, and believe it or not, joy. My wife/ex-wife/wife...

So the government has criminal records that may impact one's ability to be hired for a job. School.systems have transcripts or school records to see if a student is worthy of attending a particular...

I know my wife ignored her vows and any sense of morality to pursue an affair with a married man while we were married. I know even after that man decided to work on his own marriage instead of...

So yet again I feel that familiar tidal wave of grief hit me from out of nowhere. Oh I have been progressing through the smaller waves that bring on quick, hot tears. I know they erode away the...

At any time in my 15 year marriage, I would have been quick to excuse the self-centered nature of my wife. I was always confused at her inability to empathize with anyone. She could recognize...

So Saturday 2/27, my wife and I signed our dissolution of marriage papers and had them notarized. The parenting plan has been approved by each of us and both documents will be submitted to the courts...

I took my boys to a Supercross last night. It was the first time we've been on this traditional family event without my wife. I'm so glad they had a great time with me but I know they wished she had...

So much has happened since the last journal entry.  My wife has agreed to letting me be the primary caregiver and have majority custody of my boys. We are working together and cooperating as we...

I have not posted for quite awhile. There is nothing good to report. My wife continues her affair thinking I am unaware. She has told me she ended it because our children are the priority. I have...