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- It seems like there are conflicting ideas as to how to move forward, and I am just wondering what you all think. All resources say to "let go and move forward", and also 'deal with the pain, don't ignore it." Everytime a thought of my ex and the...
- We all are talking about "letting go", so I have a question. If you have been separated for 15 months, divorced for 6 months, and still can't "let go", what is the problem?? I have no contact with ex, haven't since June 2010, when I last got my...
- I have been divorced for 6 months, separated for 9 before that. I still feel like it was yesterday. I keep waiting for time to heal. I seem to be "stuck". I am at my daughter's family's house and have been for 15 months. My job here is to help...
- Just a word of advice - if your ex is on facebook, don't look to see what they are doing!! Trust me, it is the most painful thing you can do because you are sure to see something that will hurt you. I used to check it all the time and FINALLY got...
- Does anyone believe in their hearts that they will get through this pain of losing your ex? I love this forum and the advice is wonderful - it has helped me so much, mostly to know I am not alone. My biggest fear is that I will never be able to...
- This is ridiculous, I know, but I have to get this out. I am still struggling with my divorce from May. My heart is broken and I am trying to mend it. I just talked to my 87 year old mom who lives in assisted living in another state and she told...
- This may sound weird, but I hope not. Is there anyone who used to be able to enjoy a glass (or 2!) of wine, couple beers, etc. but no longer can because they are afraid of how it might affect them mentally (like make you cry EVEN MORE and really...
- I just need some opinions, please. I separated from my ex in September 2009, and was divorced in May 2010. I came to my daughter and her family's home and I am still here!!!I I have a 2 year old granddaughter that has been my saving grace and my...
- What happens when two co-dependent people get together? And what is your definition of "co-dependent"? Thanks...
- Can someone please tell me if they have gotten through this? I guess because of nature of this forum, if they did, they probably wouldn't be on this, right?! I keep reading the posts and they all are saying the same thing: we have to be strong,...
- Could someone give me their definition of "narcissistic" if it relates to their ex? What are the most common characteristics? Thanks.....
- I know I have already addressed the age issue, but one thing I have found difficult is that all posts (and everything I have read regarding divorce) advise that "this is the time to grow", "learn about yourself", "figure out who you are and what you...
- I would love to know your opinion on why it is that our ex's can move on so quickly. Seems there is a lot of discussion about that. Do you believe they really ever loved you? Did we feel a different kind of love? What makes someone (like most of...
- How do you deal with the loneliness? I know everyone says stay busy (I agree), take care of yourself (I agree), but what I am talking about is the bed time hours. This has NOTHING to do with sex, I am talking about the comfort from having someone...
- I am wondering how many out there in this heartbreaking situation are over the age of 50? I am 57 (people say I don't look like it - right!) I don't feel it, have tried to stay in shape, etc. Anyway, the age thing has really caused me some stress...