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- This is only my 2nd journal entry. I joined this site in November of last year. It has now been a year ago (May, 2010) that I was divorced, and next week will be 2 years since I have seen him.I found out he remarried in Jan. 2011 (engaged December...
- I know they say when you get divorced, many times people whom you thought were friends (couples) just disappear. This happened to me with two couples that I thought were "friends" (one couple my ex knew before we married and the other were mutual...
- Over and over again on this forum we talk about how you really need to get to know someone before you get seriously involved. Ok, in my case 4 months was not long enough! However, because of the multitude of people on here who have/had been...
- This came from the website MIDLIFE DIVORCE RECOVERY and I just found it enlightening. Maybe it can help some of us understand how our spouses, who have moved forward so quickly, are able to do that seemingly with no remorse. Maybe? I don't...
- Hi... I haven't posted anything on here for a while, but am reading many of the posts and trying to comment when I can. I am still struggling to make any headway in my healing, and I have found a new counselor whom I think will be helpful. She is...
- I have not done any journaling on my own or on this site, and I am curious:1) how many of you journal regularly on their own?2) do you think it really helps ease some of the pain and what is your opinion as to how and why.Thanks...Cindy
- EVERYTHING I read about moving forward, lists the emotional stages that one goes through when going through a divorce. So... after 10 months since divorce (and in some ways, no further along than I was 18 months ago when we split up), I finally am...
- Has anyone had their ex say that to them - before they divorced them?! And if so, how did it make you feel? The more I think about that, the madder I get that he had the nerve to say that to me. I knew I made him a better person - helped him see...
- I, for the life of me, cannot understand why on a support forum there would be this type of activity going on. This board has helped me beyond measure and I think (or hope) that I have been able to help someone, even if just a little. Dave 17 said...
- After separation of 8 months, then divorced 8 months ago, I find myself still hurting and it is almost as if there is something in me that is gone - just a vague feeling, but even in the fun times (I have great friends and family), there is still...
- Does anyone know how to go back to a certain page in posts? I am trying to go back to my original post dated November 28, 2010, without going through each page (1 - 3429). Can't figure out how to type in page number that I am trying to go back to....
- This person wrote the book "There is Life After What's-His-Name" - great title, huh?! I found this book to be the best one I have read about getting over a breakup - and I have read a lot of them! AUTHOR SPEAKER- SUCCESS COACHSusan Russo is...
- I have been on this site for two months now and I can't tell everyone how much it has meant to me. That being said, I am so afraid that I will never get over this. It's been 15 months since separated and 7 months since divorce. My circumstances...
- Does anyone have an idea how someone you love with all your heart, and they tell you they feel the same, can just walk away, get divorced, with no remorse? I just can't understand what is different about all (or most) of us that we are devastated...
- Did anyone change their name back to maiden (or previous name) after divorce? I should have done it when we got divorced because if would have been in decree, with no cost to me, but I didn't. Now every time I write it or see it... well, you...