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Status: I just want to be HAPPY again!
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- While reading the most recent post on forgiveness, I clicked on the link provided by Jayalexander. It has alot of articles by a guy named Rick Reynolds. So I started reading about mistakes BS make during R and mistakes CS make during R and other...
- While watching Dr. Phil the other day he was discussing the subject of forgiveness. I know that we have gone over that alot on this site, but I wanted to share his thoughts anyway. He said forgiveness is a choice and we shouldn't think that it will...
- Has anyone heard of Mort Fertel? I found his" fix your marriage" ad on line and was wondering if anyone heard of him or maybe even tried his program. I have to admit that I'm interested in it. It is an alternative to counseling...you can send for...
- My inner voice has been telling me for awhile now that I will never get past my H affair. So why do I stay? I have thought long and hard about the answer to that. I guess simply put, because what I have here with him is better than what I would...
- Here's where I'm at...still trying to figure out what is best for me. And why I don't feel better than I do. H confessed his A I did not catch him. He was the one that broke it off with her. she wanted to marry him. He has taken full...
- After my H and I had another talk about his A, so many things were going through my mind. We used to feel better after talking, but now we really don't because we are just rehashing the same things. But then again, it is what it is.H has never...
- I may be at a crossroads, but not quite sure. I do know that I'm still confused and trying to make sense of whats going on.My H cheated but has been doing evrything right as far as R goes. I know he wishes it never happened and is very sorry, I can...
- I've debated for awhile now to post this because I don't want anyone to think I've lost it! I am still quite sane{ most days anyway :)}I still have not seen the OW and have been trying to accomplish this for quite some time now. Here is a list of...
- It will be Valentines day in a couple of weeks. I haven't felt like saying 'I love you" to my H for awhile now. If he says it to me, I always say it back. But I just don't feel like saying it first.Our anniversary is this month as well. We will be...
- While on brake at work I was looking through a magazine. It was Redbook I think. Anyway, there was an article that listed the three things a woman needs to have a happy marriage.The first one stated that she should have a vacation on her own. Not...
- I have not felt close to my H for awhile now. This makes me wonder if it is the beginning of the end. He will tell me that he loves me and I do say it back, but I haven't said it first in a long time. Although I believe I still do love him, the...
- I am 13 months past Dday and still need to talk about things with my H. The problem is after this much time and many talks, we do not feel any better afterwards. Sometimes, we both end up in tears. My H gets frustrated and says we are just going in...
- I've been in a funk for awhile and can't seem to snap out of it. H and I had another talk last week about us both being totally honest and keeping no secrets. I simply told him that until I know everything you said to her and everything you did with...
- I really need some advice. Lately, all I can think about is getting revenge. I thought i was hiding my feelings of anger pretty good the other day, but before my H left for work he said " you don't like me today do you?" I said not as much as I...
- I had a talk with H last week and told him that I wrote the OW a letter. But I hadn't mailed it yet. { most likely never will} To my surprise, he wasn't opposed to the idea. Then came the next sentence out of his mouth. What if her kids found it or...