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how well do we know ourselves?

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When our spouse has an A we often say " I thought I knew him so well!" My H and I had a conversation the other day about this. We should feel that we know our spouse inside and out, it is very comforting to believe that of the person we share...
not a big deal to most...advice please

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I have addressed this issue in my first post, but would like to return to it because it is still a problem for me. It's the thing that lead to Dday. My H hospital stay and his needing a catheter and his nurse being young and looking like she just...
having trouble believing his answer

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I want to start by saying that I hope I don't offend anyone with my question. Was there any oral sex? I have asked my H several times and his answer is always no. Should make me feel better right? Why does this one issue nag at me? My H had told the...
sliding backwards and need advice

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I feel like I'm sliding backwards. Today, was terrible. I felt a panic attact coming on while I was at work. It was hard, but tried to concentrate on the things going on around me. All of the anger seems to be coming back full force! This thing...
should we always share our feelings?

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I have just replied to the post about how our spouses still think about the OP. Which brings about my question. I had mentioned that my H remembered something the OW told him 7 years ago. It was relevent to our conversation so he told me in good...
reading "helpful" books

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I have been trying to get good insite from the book NOT just friends and I am having a hard time with some of the views. I know I posted about this once before. Today I read in several places about the BS taking their share of the blame for their...
computer disibility

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Can someone please tell me how to talk to a friend on line? Someone sent me a message and I figured out how to answer back [ I think] I just don't know how to get a message back to the person who sent me one.
contacting the Ow

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I have started reading the book "Not just friends". Last night I read something that really made me mad. It was about the BS writing a letter to the OP. It advised that you sit down with your spouse and let them read what you wrote and decide...
a poem to share with you

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I was just reading the "ROLLER COASTER" post. I have been asking myself how long do we go with this situation until I decide I hate feeling like this. It has been about six months so really in this thing not that long. But there are days when I am...
"there are no mistakes"

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I have been thinking about that line from the movie "Unfaithful". It really meant alot to me after Dday and it opened my eyes too. When people tell my H made a mistake I disagree. Diane Lane says to her lover right before they had sex for the first...
where was my self respect?

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I'm glad x-mas is over! Some of you know my H A was this time of year. It has been a rough few days, smiling and acting happy though! Today had another talk with H. I was thinking about how everything went down. When he came to...
things my husband told me

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Don't really know if anyone will be interested or not, but I thought I might explain my situation more fully. Maybe Blindside could comment if anybody. I had talked about my H and the OW first physical touch was the hug that she asked for. I know...
just thinking....

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I have been thinking lately about how short life really is. As far as the mess we all find ourselves in. I ask myself questions like " if me H got really sick or badly hurt what would I do?" Of course I know I wouldn't leave his side. And also "Do I...
infidelity

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I have been married for 27 years. Six years ago my husband told me he was in love with a woman he worked with and was going to leave me for her. He said their relationship had not gone as far as sex yet. I did believe him because he was going to...