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- Next week will mark roughly 3 years since I first logged on to this site when my world fell apart after my affair was discovered. I periodically pop back on to update my status. I want to educate those who may be in the midst of an affair on...
- Wow, it's been a hot minute since I've logged on to this site. Two and a half years, a drawn out divorce, and some extra gray hairs later I figured I owed this site an update. I don't often see many people follow up after their initial...
- It's been about 2 months since I've come here to post. I'm in a better place mentally and emotionally than I was before, but I'm still struggling with some things. I've continued seeing a counselor, and that has helped me feel a little more...
- I was served divorce papers this morning as I was leaving for work. It was a humiliating, devastating experience that I prayed would never happen. He's trying to take everything from me. He knows I can't afford a lawyer, I have no friends,...
- I'm trying to gain some insight as I journey through this mess I've created for myself in trying to understand what propels us to seek out others when we are in a relationship/marriage with someone else, especially if it is a happy one. I'm trying...
- It's been 5 months to the day and today he cut me off financially. He left me enough to pay bills for the month. We're still legally married, I'm still living in our home and my little paychecks were going in the joint account. I was trying to...
- I've struggled with mental health issues and depression for quite a long time, going back 20 years. I've been to therapy and tried medications that more or less just numbed the underlying pain. I'm currently experiencing a very difficult time...
- I have nowhere else to turn right now. My heart is broken and I'm falling apart right now as I type. It all hurts so much. I had anxiety all day waiting for the call I just got from my husband. I knew it wasn't going to be good because he...
- So tomorrow is my birthday and 4 months post D-Day. I'm not really looking forward to it, it's kind of been like that the last few months with most things that used to bring me happiness. I'm kind of dreading waking up in the morning and having...
- I'm in a really bad place right now, I really don't know how much more I can take. I feel like I'm failing and I'm losing hope every day. My husband called yesterday to tell me he's going out of the country for a few months (he's military). I...
- So tomorrow marks 3 months since he found out and left me. I've been living in limbo ever since. I'm barely functioning, basically on autopilot just to make it through the day. I am exhausted, depressed, and absolutely miserable. He says he...
- Coming up on the 2 month mark since my husband discovered my on again off again 2 year affair. I've posted here before because I had nowhere else to turn and I still have so much guilt and pain. My husband left the night of the discovery and has...
- I'm not sure if this is the right place to go but I'm reaching out because I'm at an extremely low point right now and the pain is unbearable. I posted previously in the Cheaters Anonymous forum a few weeks ago. My affair was discovered a month...
- I posted about a week ago. It's been 3 weeks since D Day and my husband still hasn't come home and communication has only been a result of me pushing for it. I've only seen my husband once in almost 3 weeks and I miss him terribly. He says he...
- I came here because I don't know what else to do or where to turn. I'm learning very fast that when you're the cheater, there's very little support or understanding out there for you. My on again off again affair of 2 years was discovered 2...