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- I am sitting here a total mess. Tomorrow makes 6 months since my husband passed. Two more days and I will be on a plane to my new home. The time has finally come and I am at a lost for words. My heart hurts for my kids, they are leaving their older...
- I miss my husband so much these days. I feel like I have not had a real adult conversation since he died. Somehow every conversation I have revolves around his death or my future plans without him. I wish I could tell him all that is happening. I...
- My husband was in home hospice for two weeks before he died. I had a friend who I had not heard from in awhile. We had a falling out a few years ago but were always friendly when we ran into each other. At one time we had been really good friends...
- I have noticed the last week or so there are a number of new members to our group. While I am saddened you had to join I am happy to know you have found the strength to find help and healing. I myself am five months into my journey and have been...
- I was hoping someone here can give me some advise. I live in a community property state. I have been paying off my husbands credit cards. I have only notified a few of them of his death. I figured once I pay them off I will notify them and close...
- Today I am feeling scared, scared of the unknown. I had a dumpster delivered to the house to empty it out. The biggest issue was the 3 car garage that never held a car in the 15 years we lived here. It was my husbands man cave. I cleaned it out as...
- I am sitting in a hotel room with my two kids and my 3 dogs as I am writing this out. I had to leave my house as I had so many viewing appointments this weekend and I was tired of driving aimlessly around with my family in the car. Who knew selling...
- I beleive in signs, have always have. My husband was never a believer, used to tell me it was hocus pocus. I rememer this dog we had, it was one of the best loving dogs we ever owned. He passed away in my bed. There were times at night I would feel...
- I am feeling just so overwhelmed. I have a house in CT that is currently in escrow and my house in CA which I am trying to get ready to put on the market. I have been doing this all while raising two teenagers, my 20 year old son and his girlfriend...
- I was watching this TV show yesterday and this lady was talking about how her husband had said his goodbyes to her before he died. It really made think that I never got that. The funny thing is I could have. My husband died over four months ago, he...
- We all now belong to the club we called the Widows club, we didn't ask to be members but our membership was granted. We now are all in possesion of the Widows card. It is like those credit cards they send you in the mail you never applied for but...
- Today is the 4th of July, my husbands favorite day of the year. He looked forward to it every year like a big kid. I have been dreading this day as much as I dreaded Fathers Day but I got through that and I will get through this day. I went as far...
- Happy Fathers Day to all fathers we have lost. I have been dreading this day since my husband died 3 months ago. I woke up this morning to find my son awake at 6am, usually he sleeps to 11am. He told me he was fine but I know he is not. I cried...
- Last night my son had one of his friends over. They have know each other since they were 6 years, they are now 20. This young man's mother passed about a month ago leaving him and his sister alone. I remember when my son told me of her passing, I...
- It has been 3 months since my husband passed and I still feel like I am cleaning up the messes he left behind. All the projects he didn't complete I have had to pay someone to finish. The bills he forgot to pay and the paperwork he didn't complete...