DianeMTB

Widows being treated differently because we are widows.  I am finding that the case with some people.  On the bright side they are not people I was very close to in the first place.  I guess when...

People treat you differently when you lose someone special in your life.  I am a widow now.  I am not a man eater.  I am finding some people are not so close since I lost Smokey.  I am not after...

If I could pick the above "Mark this entry as" it would be sad and venting.  I lost my husband Smokey.  My life will never ever be the same again. How can it be?  Smokey added to my life. ...

We hold on to their things because if we get rid of certain things that will mean that they are really gone, we don't want to acknowledge the fact that they are really and truly gone.  I had to...

After five months people think you should be fine or over it now.  How crazy are they anyways?  The people that say these things have never lost anyone in their entire lives.  Grief takes a long...

I am having a hard time the last two days.  My cousin came out from Langley and we had a good day.  Being in contact with other people seems to help out a bit.  The grief and crying hits you like...

I am seeking advice for depositing my late husband's income tax refund into the bank account as he died intestate or without a will.  Is it complicated?  I got the refund today and want to deposit...

After five months when you think you are over the grief, it is just starting to hit you really hard.  I was watching a defunct show on TV starring the guy who was the lead in Three's Company.  He...

What do you do when you are home alone?  I was so used to doing things with my husband.  We did everything together.  After awhile I get bored with watching TV.  I was just curious what other...

You are all so smart about on-line dating services.  Thank you.  I wanted to say that I got a lot of feed back.  There are things I would not have thought of at all.  I guess for every good...

Thanks for letting me know about on-line dating.  As a general census, it is not a very positive thing to do.  My older brother Don said he knows a married couple that actually did meet on-line and...

I am depressed.  Anyone of you going through depression as well as the loss of a loved one?  I knew the mourning is normal but never that I would get depressed on top of it.  For me it is a mix of...

I really did not think I would live this long without Smokey.  I miss him so much.  When he passed away, I thought I would live long enough to get his estate settled and then the Good Lord would...

My sleeping problems pursist.  Any ideas?  It is not each day in a row.  Every odd day I can't go to sleep right away.  At times there are 50 million things going thru my brain.  At times I am...

I feel totally devestated with the loss of my husband Smokey.  I could not get out of the house.  My brother came over and that was nice.  It feels as if Hurricane Katrina flooded my soul at the...