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Day 3 of 365 - Man BreakWeekends are usually tough for me because those are the nights I associate with dating and being with someone.  Fortunately for me this Saturday night I'm okay with being...

Day 2 of 365 - Man BreakI read some journals today about red flags that were found in people's relationships when dating a narc.  It is amazing how obvious they are when you really start looking at...

I am writing the days of my man break down - not so I am counting them down all white knuckled but because I just want to kind of mark my progress.So far so good.  I just got back from my children's...

Day 0 of 365 – Man Break Having witnessed the one-year man break anniversary of a dear mentor, Susy, yesterday while simultaneously starting to read “How to Spot A Dangerous Man” and getting...

I am bored and lonely and a bit depressed and I'm craving men.  I want to go on a date or have a man tell me I'm pretty or get hugged or kissed.  This I know that I cannot have right now so what do...

I am so confused and moody and messed up right now.So I don't know if the moons are doing some funny stuff or something but not one but two of my exes contacted me this week.  Plus the ex I ran into...

My computer has been on the fritz for ages now and I just got it back, fixed and ready to go.  I have tried to go on site when I have a few minutes at work but it is not the same as being able to...

I was out of town all weekend at a dance conference with my daughter. It was a little overwhelming but definitely inspiring. I met some famous choreographers and one of them was Mia Michaels from...

This is a big day for me. It has been over two weeks since I have been on DS....I thought because I was just SO busy with life that I didn’t have time or energy to keep up it all, but as a wise...

My co-worker is driving me nuts!!!!!  I work in a small law firm as a legal secretary.  When I started working there the women who had worked there before me had been there for ages.  The...

For the last couple of days I have been in a bit of a funk.  I am easily irritated...which is unusual since I am not PMSing or anything.  I’ve been pondering this and trying to put my finger on...

Like I said, I had my centre on Monday and now I can't even find it! I've been going back deep into my self-help books and going along my merry way toward healing.  I'm trying to be honest with...

I got out of bed this morning (believe me this was no small feat given it was the kind of cold January morning in Canada that has you sprinting from the cozy covers to the shower for warmth) and I...

I always get down at the holidays.   Maybe its my expectations.  Maybe it's because I compare myself to others.  Or maybe it's because of the huge let down after Christmas.  All that busyness...

I went to my first holiday party and already I'm pissed.  Ate GREAT food but still pissed.  Isn't Christams supposed to be about love and joy and sharing your gratitude with others...yeah...