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Day 7 of 365 - Man Break - One week!  Yeah me!  Watching Avatar with my son.  He's the only man I plan to be with tonite!

Day 6 of 365 - Man BreakI promised myself to write here every day as part of my therapy and progress.  And so I am keeping my promise.  With work, driving kids here and there, dance class and...

Day 5 of 365 - Man BreakI'm a day late with this one because last night was hectic!  So I'm writing about yesterday today.I felt a bit panicky last night looking at the long stretch of road ahead of...

I just finished reading the book "How To Spot a Dangerous Man" by Sandra Brown. I have to say it is the book that has affected me the most except from where I started my journey with "Women Who Love...

Day 4 of 365 - Man BreakSo much to do this week and not enough time!  It's hard to imagine I even notice whether a man is in my life or not with all the stuff I have to do.  I might as well put up...

Day 3 of 365 - Man BreakToday was filled with a lot of household chores, dishes, sweeping, laundry and grocery shopping as well as driving my kids to their various destinations.  Everyday, routine...

Day 3 of 365 - Man BreakWeekends are usually tough for me because those are the nights I associate with dating and being with someone.  Fortunately for me this Saturday night I'm okay with being...

Day 2 of 365 - Man BreakI read some journals today about red flags that were found in people's relationships when dating a narc.  It is amazing how obvious they are when you really start looking at...

I am writing the days of my man break down - not so I am counting them down all white knuckled but because I just want to kind of mark my progress.So far so good.  I just got back from my children's...

Day 0 of 365 – Man Break Having witnessed the one-year man break anniversary of a dear mentor, Susy, yesterday while simultaneously starting to read “How to Spot A Dangerous Man” and getting...

I am bored and lonely and a bit depressed and I'm craving men.  I want to go on a date or have a man tell me I'm pretty or get hugged or kissed.  This I know that I cannot have right now so what do...

I am so confused and moody and messed up right now.So I don't know if the moons are doing some funny stuff or something but not one but two of my exes contacted me this week.  Plus the ex I ran into...

My computer has been on the fritz for ages now and I just got it back, fixed and ready to go.  I have tried to go on site when I have a few minutes at work but it is not the same as being able to...

I was out of town all weekend at a dance conference with my daughter. It was a little overwhelming but definitely inspiring. I met some famous choreographers and one of them was Mia Michaels from...

This is a big day for me. It has been over two weeks since I have been on DS....I thought because I was just SO busy with life that I didn’t have time or energy to keep up it all, but as a wise...