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- Has anyone experienced chnaging feelings as you attempt to work to repair your marriage? I don't know if I'm going thru one of the many stages or what is happening to me. Recently I have been looking at my husband and he is just not caring about...
- That's the way I feel. I have been feeling down latley and just not feeling like fighting for the marriage any more, it's exhausting. After months of "nagging" H to do things as suggested in our counseling, like showing me the emails, reading the...
- It really sucks that in this day with the economy that it would be difficult for H to find another job. He was just out of work all summer due to a back injury and the bills are still coming in. I can't seem to shake the knot that I have...
- Well, H has been planning a special day for "us " for the past three weeks. He arranged a babysitter and we spent the whole day together on Sat. We went on a wine tour and just held hands and spent the day being close. Had dinner and then watched...
- I think i may have over reacted but don't feel bad. After counseling and discussion of rebuilding trust we sat down and opend H e-mail. There was nothing there from the OW. I saw a e-mail from a personal email and opened it up and it was very plain,...
- Has anyone every felt like they have had enough and that they have given the whole situation a chance , but need some big change to their life? Like moving on without the daily constant wondering if it is really over or will this happen again? H has...
- Ok, from counseling a few ways to build trust in a broken relationship are: Being able to have access to cell phones , pagers and codes . Being able to see the other persons email Right??? Well I had a major break down yesterday that my source at H...
- H was asked to leave counseling a month ago and told to get individual help. He was to call EAP and get some referal for someone to see. Well because he is a supervisor at his job he is hesitant because he does not want his supervisor to know( I...
- Recently the true has been told. Now it finally seems H is making steps to repair the hurt that he has caused. To make this brief , H was asked to leeave couseling with me by therapist, because he needs to sort out his own before we move forward as...
- Ok, my stomach is in knots and I'm a mess. H returned to work today after being out on disability due to back surgery. H and OW don't work directly with each other but at the same hospital( not very big). I feel so not in control and I can only hope...
- I am back at work and H still out on disability . Fianally came clean after a friends sister gave me the truth that I was looking for. Now H says that he is telling me the truth and not sure how to believe what he is telling me. I have her name home...
- Ok so this past week we were on vacation and a friend I work with has a sister that works in the same hospital as H .It just so happens that the person that i work with was talking to her sister and mentioned that my H was having some kind of...
- Anyone who has had these back problems and a recent laminectomy ever had this problem with maintaing ???
- After all the talking I have been doing with the H , the movie "fireproof actually made him open his eyes to the damage that has been done to our marriage.For anyone who is trying to work at their marriage I would really reccommend this movie.
- I am seriously thinking of asking for a seperation from my H. I want him to know that I am very serious about knowing the truth and that he has hurt me tremndoulsy.This is the secound time in 12 years. I think that he currently is feeling secure...