H was asked to leave counseling a month ago and told to get individual help. He was to call EAP and get some referal for someone to see. Well because he is a supervisor at his job he is hesitant because he does not want his supervisor to know( I think) . Well , I am getting upset that he has not done this yet and he said to me last evning , I will tell you when I call, "do you think I won't tell you" . I just don't know what to think , why is he not wanting to seek out individual help??? does anyone have any ideals. I have not had any feelings that he is continuing the relationship with the OW. Also, please let me know what you all think, If they worked together and he went back to work after beoing out on disability for a few weeks after telling her over the phone that "we are working on our marriage" Does anyone think she might try to contact him sometime since he has been back for two weeks. Do the others just back off that easily????
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