man I wanna see that movie sounds good.

I agree a must see movie for all married couples, especially those who's lives have been touched by Infidelity!!!

Yes, it is a great movie. It's low budget, but the message is moving! I think all couples, married and right before marriage should watch this flick. It's that good. It has a religious tone, so those that do not believe in God will probably have a hard time accepting the movie. But, even if you don't believe in God, I still think it is a great film for couples.

We bought it when it came out on DVD, but haven't watched it yet. I just haven't been in the mood for the emotions I think it is going to bring up.

I brought it up under the post asking for inspiration that has touched everyone.

I didn't expect to be so moved by it, and I was crying early on. (I'm a bit of an emotional pushover with movies, though.) Loving, you should set aside some alone time if you don't find a chance to watch it with your H. But, if you can watch it with your SO, I think it will be even more meaningful. I know, every now and then, I'd glance toward my H, and to see the expression on his face- well, I knew we were connected.

If someone had told me that a low budget film, with mostly volunteer actors, produced by a religious company, complete with biblical references would change my life, I would have thought I was being asked to drink the Kool-Aid. But I would recommend it. I also bought the Love Dare, and have just started it this week. Marriage is worth working for, and I'm not too proud to look for help along the way.

I have watched it. It was a good movie. Some of it I could relate to, other parts I couldn't

You know I have to jump in on this one!...LOL Fireproof really hit my H hard. I had the movie since the day it came out but at that point I trusted in my marriage, I had no reason not to..or at least I didn't think I did! After the movie, we were both crying, hugging, snotting and snorting all over the place, he said to me that he knew he needed God in his life. If there is ONE good thing that has come out of this A it's that. Maybe if God had been in his life before this wouldn't have happened. We went to church together on Sunday and started the Love Dare the same day. It's harder than anyone thinks because you are forced to think about your H or W ALL day. Today I had to buy him something that showed I was thinking of him. I bought him chocolate eclairs..LOL. He bought me one beautiful rose. We get up each morning and read the chapter before I go to work, and then we accept the dare. Try not to read ahead, it will give you too much to think about at one time.

Nora - you're so right. when my h's a first came out, we went straight to God with our pain and asked for his help. Now, nearly a year later, we sorta moved away from God and that scares me. I told H the other day, that I was scared. I wanted to start praying together again because that made me feel safe. I told him that one of the reasons we were in this mess is because we were shutting God out of our lives. I never want to do that again, I'm fearful of shutting him out. The devil is so powerful and I see it now. I see how powerful he is and I know that I can't beat him without God.

We are not religious and I am afraid to watch this movie with my H because I don't want to make my H feel bad about the affair anymore. I really think I have beat him up enough in addition to the beating he has given himself. Will he feel awful if we watch this movie and will it remind him of the horrible thing he did or will he see something good in it? Will we be taking a step backwards from the progress we have made?

Ami....first of all, you are not that stupid... I think you should change your name because its negative for you and we wll need to be positive. I also think that it's THEIR pain and they should have to face it every day, hopefully the pain for them will also prove to be a daily reminder NOT TO DO IT AGAIN! The beauty of it is, we don't have to remind them, there is enough other stuff going on in the world that should trigger a reminder. Look at all the politicians who have done it, proclaim their apologies in front of a camera, blah blah blah, books, movies, news...heck there's even a show dedicated to it..CHEATERS...

The wife in the movie begins an EA with a man she doesn't even know is married, even though she is to Kirk Cameron's character - but - the movie is more about learning to love your partner in the deepest, most respectable way! If you believe in God then you also believe that He loves us unconditionally and I really believe that is what it's trying to teach us. The same for the Love Dare book. I must still be too new to this whole crappy situation because my feeling is had they thought about our feelings to begin with, they never would have done what they did. I will admit that I feel bad for him sometimes but it's still nothing in comparison to the pain I feel that I didn't deserve. They do because they made the choice to take that detour in life. Truth has to solidify progress, withouth it we're just ignoring the inevitable.

i wanna watch this movie now. i started gong to church adn tried to get my H to go. he wouldnt. of course not... he was having an affair. when it all came out he began believing in God and attending church with me and the boys. i asked why now? he said because... God is all he had left. He was the only one he had to talk to.

i could see how it could help for some but did not for us

I watched it on youtube.

My husband liked it, but I didn't...I had been doing that stuff with him since we had been married.

It more or less made me madder!

i rented fireproof and i plan to watch it tonite! my H wrks nites and i a super apprehensive about watching it.
i dont want to re-live it all over again. i dont want it to make me upset or more angry, i dont want it to bring anything back for me............ i guess im avoiding dealing with the affair even thiugh its been............................................one year, two months and three days. i told my H i rented it and i told him i wanted to watch it solo first... he understood. so wish me luck and lets hope its helps me heal rather than dwell on what im trying to work through with my H by my side...