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- I've been on this site off and on for quite a few years. I first came on when I discovered my ex-husband was emotional abusive. He later became physically abusive and after 5 years together, I finally found the strength to leave. I got a divorce,...
- Here is my somewhat complicated situation. I hope someone out there has some practical advice because I don't know where to turn. I was married to my husband and we have children together. He was abusive-emotionally, physically, etc. After I left...
- I'm so embarrassed to be here again, actually. I finally left my abuser around 2 years ago and was doing ok. I had to struggle to rebuild myself and finally eked out a job and was looking forward to starting a new life.Then I made a huge mistake. I...
- So I've left for good for a little over 2 months now, and I just wanted to share my thoughts for those who are thinking about leaving and those who have left and are struggling.So, for summary's sake (since I'm on here off and on):I've been in an...
- Where do we start to build healthy relationships?I was emotionally abused by my mother growing up, which developed me into a overly submissive person and also blinded to basic verbal abuse tactics (since it was "normal" to me). I have been in some...
- So I'm the type to keep my business to myself, even though I've been going through hell with my relationship with my sbtx husband. However, all these years he's gossiped about me, painting me in a bad light in front of friends, family,...
- I wanted to start a conversation about red flags that we missed that might have clued us into abuse being possible. I know there are many lists floating around out there, but I just wanted to personalize it just for anyone out there that has the...
- I've been here off an on for a couple years, and I thought I would be gone by now...it's so hard and life throws so many curveballs that it's hard to leave...warning, rant ahead!In my last thread...
- Ok, I need one more word of advice. I haven't spoken to my husband since I left Friday morning. He's spoken to my brother a few times, and when I went to get my things, he wasn't there. Now, I would be fine not speaking to him ever again, but we do...
- Hi folks. I'm the beginning of my separation of my abusive husband. I honestly don't want to go back to him and have mapped out how to replace all the material things and important papers I have left behind, but I have one thing that I really miss:...
- Some of you mat remeber me although I haven't written in over a year. I finally decided to leave my husband today. We've been together for 4 years and married for 2 and a half, and we have a 2 year old together. He tears me down under the guise of...
- Hello everyone!I decided to take a break and get to planning my escape. The good news is D-Day is just around the corner--I'm getting laid off and have no ties to this city by the end of the year.The bad news--my car decided to crap out in September...
- What in the fresh H is this?!? I'm not linking to it, but I really wonder if it prey$ on the hopes of we victims that, in some little way, hope to cure our narcissistic partners. I looked at the link and read the intro. And it said all the things...
- I tried to leave my husband, but he sucked me back in. The weekend was nice, but when I found out that he possibly might have slept with someone (again) PLUS some other woman was at our apartment (again) without my knowledge, he flipped on me and...
- It's been a while since I posted. I only posted a little bit so I don't know if anyone remembers me...Anyway, my husband (who is verbally abusive towards me) and I have been going through the ups and downs. I was going to leave him, he threatened to...