I've been on this site off and on for quite a few years. I first came on when I discovered my ex-husband was emotional abusive. He later became physically abusive and after 5 years together, I finally found the strength to leave. I got a divorce, and miraculously, he dropped from my life. I started dating again and unfortunately found myself entangled with an abusive boyfriend, which I didn't realize until we had a child together. So, once again, I find myself having to leave again. The choice to leave was easy but logistics is hard as I'm suffering financial abuse as well as him moving the family around all the time so I can never get settled anywhere. I finally started freeing myself from the financial abuse and had a plan in place to leave. Unfortunately, he discovered my plan and sabotaged me, and now it seems like I need to make a plan quickly before things get worse.

At this point, I need to talk to someone about making a safety plan/exit plan, considering my current circumstances. I am unable to leave my house alone without arousing suspicion. Does anyone know where I can find online resources (preferred) or over the phone resources for DV counseling? I've called the DV hotline, but they usually refer me to the crisis center. But I need someone I can talk to for a longer period of time to really hash out my plan.

I can also share on here if someone wants to give it a whirl, but I can't really go into too much detail unless we can discuss privately.