pattongb
Status: One day at a time!
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- My stbx keeps calling me to talk now, and I want nothing to do with it. Its funny how when you stop caring they get mad and want to try to reconnect with you.I just txt her and say: "if you want someone to talk to call your boyfriend."
- I made counseling appointments for my kids today. They are both struggling.I emailed the stbx to let her know when the times were, and who they were with.Her response: "Thank you! That sounds wonderful!"WTF?My reply was: "um what the hell is wrong...
- Dont be too mean, im a bit sensitive right now.. LOL!
- I have been posting about how my stbx and I are simply not working out as friends. I have not been able to get over the fact she is sleeping with another guy already, and that she lies to me non-stop now.Well today she emails me and tells me that...
- Ive been thinking a lot about beating up this ahole who thinks its ok to sleep at my wifes house, with my wife, 1 month after I moved out. (He was there the night I moved out, I caught them but didnt do it then).Really if there wasnt the legal...
- I need some words of encouragement today.I am VERY sad and anxious. This is day 2 of my wifes business trip with her boyfriend in Ohio, and I am suffering greatly. Add to that the fact that we are not really talking anymore except about the kids,...
- I can understand that women probably have a hard time on dating sites because of all the disengenuise guys that go on them just looking for dates.But shouldnt a geniune family guy, who is honest and has a big heart (oh and im not bad looking either)...
- I hate to even think about it, but im starting to wonder now that my wife has left me, in an apartment, with no job, and on major anti-depression drugs; if I shouldnt consider applying for Social Security for my illness till I can get back on my...
- How do you make it another day? I am starting to wonder.My wife moved me out of the house, our 2 year old 4 bedroom home, into a 2 bedroom apartment.She did it while I was disabled from work due to a bad knee injury and unemployed. I was also...
- I drank some Merlot wine, had a few cigarettes (first in 11 years, but im not planning on doing it full time), and I watched the movie Heartbreak Kid with Ben Stiller.It was actually pretty nice. I laughed a lot. Sometimes its ok just to feel OK.
- Im supposed to go over there and have dinner with her and the kids and play some board games with her.Im not going to do it. I just emailed her and told her im not coming.She spent last night with her boyfriend, now she is supposed to have me come...
- It just hit me tonight that she is sleeping there, and I am sleeping here, and that is how it is going to be from now on.Its been this way for 3 weeks, so it shouldn't have been a surprise thought, but it was for some reason. I think thats why im...
- Be friends with their stbx even though they cheated, and continue to see that person while you are being friends?The reason I ask is my wife and I are divorcing, she has been seeing a guy from work and continues to see him even though I tell her it...
- Can I forgive my stbx for cheating on me? Should I even try? That is my biggest issue right now.I could probably forgive if it was a one night thing, but she is still seeing the guy, and we have only been seperated 3 weeks.But I also think about...
- Wife emailed me earlier and asked if i was going to be ok with the fact she was having her boyfriend over for a movie and dinner tonight.LOL, she was just concerned that I would come over and beat his ass, but I told her "whatever, I dont care...