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pattongb 02/19/2008

Ive been thinking a lot about beating up this ahole who thinks its ok to sleep at my wifes house, with my wife, 1 month after I moved out. (He was there the night I moved out, I caught them but didnt do it then).

Really if there wasnt the legal consequences I think it would have happened already.

But still...some things are worth it right??

Ive seen the guy up close (when he was hiding in my wifes bathroom) and I figure it would only take about 10 seconds and 2 quick shots.

deleted_user 02/19/2008

Don't waste your time or energy. It may make you feel good for a minute but what does it show your children. And do you want your wife to look like the victim here?

Focus on what's important. You. Your children. Your future with them.

Let the cheater and her boyfriend live their disgusting lives together.

Stand taller than they do.

deleted_user 02/19/2008

Not a good idea unless you like showering with big men who like other men to do "special favours" for them like picking up the soap. etc.
Better ideas would be to juggle dangerous objects, jam your hand in the kitchen draw, relase the handbrake on your car and let it run over your head. etc.

deleted_user 02/19/2008

He's not the problem. If it wasn't him it would be another man.

deleted_user 02/19/2008

or woman. I am not sure what you wife is into

Mozart 02/19/2008

Not worth getting near the trash, it just smells more...
You're the man! You'll find that Angel soon.

deleted_user 02/19/2008

or dog, or horse...like I said. I don't know what your STBX wife is into.

deleted_user 02/19/2008

I felt sorry for my STBX first boyfriend, she spent so much time before he moved in with her telling him what an asshole I was. Then 3 weeks later he moves out because they were fighting.

deleted_user 02/19/2008

I have wanted to walk into my husbands office and just slap the other woman a few times in front of an office full of patients, but only in my dreams. LOL

deleted_user 02/19/2008

I thought about that also but know it would do me or anybody no good. Their time will come and we will just sit back and watch. Karma....

deleted_user 02/19/2008

He didn't make vows to you, she did.

deleted_user 02/19/2008

doing the crime isnt worth the time..but you can dream about it *smirk*

deleted_user 02/19/2008

doing the crime isnt worth the time..but you can dream about it *smirk*

deleted_user 02/20/2008

Don't waste your time and it isn't worth the legal consequences. What goes around, comes around. Believe in Karma, they will both get theirs. It just takes time.

deleted_user 02/20/2008

Yeah, She made the vows not him. Yes it is disrespectful for him to sleep with a married woman but people can be assholes. He's not worth it!!

deleted_user 02/20/2008

"10 seconds and 2 quick shots" , huh, every been to a traditional Karate dojo. The guys who look like you could kick their ass in 10 seconds would have your guts re-arranged.

Don't judge a book by the cover. And don't complicate your life with extra legal fees.

Go to the gym, find a punching bag, picture him as the bag and beat the shit out of it. No negative ramifications.

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