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- My husband (we're still not anywhere in our divorce) is moving away September 1 so that he can live near the woman he left me and our kids for. He is going to severely limit how much money he sends me, even though he expects me to feed and house our...
- Do I owe my ex an explanation or a phone call for anything that is going on in my kids' lives that they have confided in me?My daughter is 21. She's not a fan of her dad right now because of what he did.My son sees his dad but it's for superficial...
- Hi, I am new to this particular group in Daily Strength. I am a 49 year-old female who has recently begun experiencing a distressing amount of hair loss. I know acute stress is a factor. (My husband of 25 years who told me every day how much he...
- I'm not asking about dating for me personally. I am so not there yet, and everyone says grieving is a process. (And I am in the beginning stages of mine.) But I wondered how long it took for you, personally, to begin dating again. And while I am...
- Ok, so here's another question for the group I would like you all to weigh in on. My therapist and my deacon and my family all think D is a narcissist. Certainly he exhibits traits of one. But he doesn't match every criteria.One of my main concerns...
- It has been suggested to me that I pick a time and length for how long I allow myself to grieve each day, and then no more than that. I am supposed to have a list of other activities I must do if I begin to grieve over my "self-allotted" amount of...
- Thank you to everyone who read my Friday journal entry and reached out. I don't know another way to do this for a whole bunch of people. Maybe there's some group message button? LOL. Anyway, I survived the evening and the night. (Plus he didn't send...
- This whole week I have woken up "fog- free". Will this come back? I know the stages of grief can come and go and switch up in any order, but "fog" in and of itself isn't really listed. I still feel depressed, sad, angry for the kids. I sometimes...
- I was just wondering if there was any way to chat on this website?
- Saw lawyer. Ex is right. He doesn't have to pay much, even though both kids will be living with me. It's because I've always worked. Plus he gets some of my pension even though he has been fiscally irresponsible. I don't know how I'm going to make...
- I am in the beginning of this journey, so I felt terrible yesterday and today. Out with the old year? Ok. That was the year I found out. I'll gladly see the end of 2014. But in with the new? 2015 is just going to be ugly. The divorce itself. My...
- Has anyone been able to find support groups for divorce in your area? Divorce Care doesn't seem to be around my area. What did everyone do? I have a therapist, and I'm grateful for this site, but I would love to be able to talk (and cry) in person...
- I feel worse after Christmas than I did before. My brother and his wife were so good to me and my kids. But now I just feel hopeless again. Does anyone else feel like this? What can I do to make myself feel better?
- The friend who has stood most firmly by my side, who literally picked me up and held me up, just found out her husband is cheating on her with escorts. What the hell is wrong with people?
- So how long did it take everyone else to come out of denial and realize that their spouse was gone for good? I guess for me it took until tonight. He didn't want to tell my daughter who is in college before her finals. My son has known for about a...