alexisday
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- My husband is currently taking medication for depression- Zoloft. I noticed today he has been in and out of mopiness. I noticed certain things aggravate him like somewhat how it was before he started the medication. Like he is starting to have a...
- At counseling, I told my husband how I felt about sexual intimacy. I expressed how I felt obligated at this moment and maybe I was becoming hyper sexual thinking if I didn't he'd continue to act out. And how he does not seem aroused by me to say the...
- I'm so scared that I may never want to be near my husband again after the betrayal I have experienced! I long to feel connected to him and have him hold me but at the same time I resent his every being. I am almost to the point where I despise him...
- So, we had our second counseling session tonight, and the therapist asked my husband to answer a few (a list) of questions pertaining to his pornography usage. He answered them- well before I was even ready, and she singled out addiction. So that is...
- This is a hard question to ask for advice because I am not asking any one to tell me what to do or to determine how this counselor works. I guess for lack of better description- I just want to know if anyone else has experienced this or if they...
- I presented my husband with my boundaries last Thursday. And it's taken about a week to finally talk about them. Not by his approach but my own. I believe my boundaries were very firm, and as patient as I would like to be in this process I am not...
- I know that no one on here can fix my issue, nor does any one have all the answers, but advice is worth more than the imaginable at this point. I have so many thoughts that maybe some of you experienced at some point also, or just some frustrations...
- I emailed my husband my set of boundaries along with a letter of my feelings and my complacence. I was unsure that I would be able to do this in person so to help my anxiety I emailed him to get the ball rolling and to start to confront him. I...
- I finally grew numb and indifferent to this situation regarding my husband and pornography. I have let it control my every move out of fear. I see a therapist and I join these online support groups, I am even starting a face to face support group...
- Then he shrugged his shoulder and came the uncertain "I don't know, maybe it's an addiction".... so I can't label him as an addict and I AM NOT TRYING TO.... but I'm at a crossroad here. I do not want to be in a relationship with a person that...
- So in my initial post, half my message was deleted...So it's been brought to my attention, and I must admit I think I kind of expected it too or else I would have already gone through with it.... What I'm talking about is setting some boundaries in...
- So it's been brought to my attention, and I must admit I think I kind of expected it too or else I would have already gone through with it.... What I'm talking about is setting some boundaries in my marriage, but having my husband look at me like...
- I am not even sure where to start. First off let me just clarify that I'm not even sure my husband is addicted. I think he may be but I can't diagnose him and his "uncertain" confession of it left me on the fence. He sure as heck doesn't seem...
- I know it's only been two weeks, but at the same time I feel like it's already been two weeks and I still struggle with my husbands confession of indulging in porn. I can't get the conversation out of my head. How he said "its pretty common, all...
- I'm new here, I was debating whether this would be a good thing to do as sometimes it is hard for me to get to actual support groups while having no one to watch my children. I have my own demons I deal with like any one else, and I am far from...