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- How does one stay sane with dysfunction all around them. I'm seriously starting to think its me. Last night I told my son who is staying with me with his wife and daughter that he needs to work on getting his license so I can stop driving him all...
- I've had enough of this creep. I bought this house. Yes I was stupid and put him on my deed. Now he hires a lawyer to negotiate on his behalf!!!! Negotiate what??? I put over $120,000 cash down...another $60,000 in the house and he contributed...
- Went to court for the bogus RO he took out on me. I made no eye contact with him...but could feel him looking at me. I hate myself for still being attracted to him. And to some degree still missing him.The judge asks me if I wish to plead guilty...
- I have to appear in court on Friday for the Restraining order he placed on me. Honestly I have been doing great. Got my son into a court ordered program....my home is peaceful. I can't remember the last time I had a weekend with no drama.Today I...
- Omg I got served the day after I filed a police report. He's staying that there is no such officer. Yet I have the report. He stating all untrue facts. All of which I have documentation and proof. One thing for example is cable was in his name. I...
- Well I had enough today...As you know my tires were slashed...my plants were kick over...my front door was open when I got home and my neighbor messaged me at 3am to tell me she saw a male sitting on the curb next to my sons car. When he saw them he...
- So I was hanging out with one of my friends. She never met the Ex BF. Asked to see a pic of him. I showed her. (he is a very sexy handsome man) She looks at me and say What's wrong with you? What were you thinking ending this? Look at this...
- My son who was arrested last week had court. They didn't actually bring him there. Just the DA and Attorney. I sat for four hours listening to cases one after the other. There had to be at least 10 cases of abuse. (all men...sorry to say) Two...
- I feel like my life has been put on hold. He controls me from a distance. I am not trying to let him. He has not responded to the attorney contract. So here is why I feel on "hold"I desperately want to book some time away alone and just sit on a...
- So far I've shared about my ex bf. I mentioned I have a son who is an addict. I have had so many problems with him thru the past few years. I'm not good at sharing my story about him because it hurts. Hurts like hell. So at the time I met my...
- Well he has the contract we agreed to about him signing my deed and me dropping the Protective order and we just go about our lives. He has not responded.I'm sure this is about control. However, he really has a lot to lose. I don't understand...
- So last week my plants were kicked over....My front door was open when I got home....and Saturday night two of my car tires were slashed in my driveway when I was sleepingI cannot see my ex BF doing these things. He has a protective order and is...
- I have been bugged a bit since yesterday in our brief interaction on the phone. We went back and forth about the house topic. I can't imagine what it would be like if I had to deal with this guy having children. I offered a solution to our...
- In trying to work out details and avoid a costly lawsuit...I had contact with my ex bf who is a con artist abuser. He is refusing to get off the deed of my house that he paid nothing for. I have a protective order that allows contact because of this...
- Everything I did for him wasn't ever good enough. I always did things with my heart in the right place. Some examples...I bought him Christmas gifts. One particular item was a very expensive pair of boots. He actually said why did you buy these. I...