Well, that RO will not be be made permanent. I'm surprised he even got his temporary. On what grounds, you wouldn't return a cable box justifies a RO?

Says I had a friend call him and pretend to be a police officer yesterday when I filed the report. I have the police report with the officers signature and badge #. He said he's been bullied by my attorney to contact him. That's insane. My attorney was nothing but professional. My thought is that he panicked knowing he did all the things I claimed and just made lies up to get an order. It's only temporary. We go to court July 24th. All my documents are in order. Pics of the slice in my hand. The tray and his drink he threw. Texts to his daughters asking them to get him out before I have him arrested. He's claiming I harass him. I've contacted him thru my attorney and earlier in texts asking to settle amicable. I wished him well for his future.
An attorney bullying him...he can't be serious. That in itself is insane

Don't drop yours - I wouldn't guarantee he will drop his. They often have an ENORMOUS sense of entitlement and can rewrite history in their own minds. So I wouldn't guarantee this is just a ploy to get you to drop yours. What you don't want is to drop yours and have him use that as some kind of "proof" that he is in fact the wronged party here.

Other than that, just keep your head, keep your documentation, and he will look like the liar he is.

He's stating the fact that we "agreed"
To drop the RO i was using it to force him to sign off on the deed. He claims he never spoke to me since I served him. We spoke one hour before my lawyer drew up the contract. It's what he asked to have done. He called me one other time also. Have phone records.
I see it escalating. This scares me. He's psycho. He won't let me just move on. Wants it to hurt and destroy me. This is the worst kind of sick I've ever seen.

This parasitic behavior you are describing from him is very familiar to me and the most important thing is to remain calm and let him bully you.

Yes, it does seem to be escalating. But you are doing the right things and he is painting himself into a corner.

Stay safe, be careful, but don't let him know he has you even a little rattled.

They are sick...that is why we are in these positions..stand tall..bring your evidence...truth prevails.

Thank you all. I'm doing my best to think level headed. The one point he mentions is I am using the RO to get him to sign the deed. Remember he told me he would sign the deed if I dropped it. My lawyer suggested I do that to avoid costly court costs. I'm afraid now the judge won't take me serious. Of course I never did drop it. The contract we drew up and the letter we sent said it was per his and my conversation. He's claiming to never have had any contact. So he's lying about that. Printed my call log.

I am rattled but not showing one bit. We weren't together for years like he was with his Ex Gf. I don't know what he did to her, but from hearing from her friends he didn't. Maybe because I threw him out. I know he did this to his ex wife saw the divorce papers where he beat and choked her and called her horrible names.

Why is it they move onto someone else and still try to destroy us.

Because it's their MO, because they are predators. They feed on the emotional energy of their victims the way vampires feed on blood. And as with any predator, if the prey escapes, they simply find another to feed upon.

As for the agreement to drop the RO if he signs the deed, well it's not ideal if that ends up in court, but it IS explainable and you can also say you did it on legal advice and so on. So it's also not that big a deal. Certainly it's way less damaging than taking out a completely bogus RO in order to try to get someone to drop a legit one without having to do anything in return.

Just spoke with my attorney. I am printing my call log the day the contract was prepared. He stated in RO that he has not contacted me since he moved. My call log shows we spoke 10 mins that same day when he called me. Shows incoming. Also another day for 37 mins.

Attorney said to say to judge he called me and we agreed to terms just so we can move on peacefully. He said that shouldn't be an issue.

I'm sick to my stomach how I feel for this blood sucking leach

If he has had relationships where he responded with aggression before, because things did not go his way or he felt like he lost his power and not just the control, this is another one of those relationships.

It does not make sense or is it logical. But the most important thing is to draw boundaries and not let him hold you hostage by managing your emotions with his actions. Only decide how you feel.

I remember every time I did something to defend myself and let my abuser know, he would use this information to attack me. Because "attack is the best defense".
It took me a long time to understand his strategy and to stop feeling like I was the predator.