Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
I feel like my life has been put on hold. He controls me from a distance. I am not trying to let him. He has not responded to the attorney contract. So here is why I feel on "hold"
I desperately want to book some time away alone and just sit on a beach and unwind after what has been a brutal month. I can afford a short trip.
However......
Here is where I am on hold. I am afraid to spend money because I probably have to take him to court and pay tons to get the house back.
He has in the time we split gone on two vacations WE paid for and were going together.
I want to do things....I want to have fun....I want to live a little. I am trying to take care of myself. I am seeing my friends a lot. Great support from them. Always calling and always inviting me places. I'm blessed that way. But I want to not sit here worrying about spending anything. I feel like I am a hostage.
I've not contacted him at all. He has seen no reaction from me. I am never going to contact him. I know that's what he wants....but I won't. I rather chew off my arm. I hate him. I hate that he is holding me back.
I desperately want to book some time away alone and just sit on a beach and unwind after what has been a brutal month. I can afford a short trip.
However......
Here is where I am on hold. I am afraid to spend money because I probably have to take him to court and pay tons to get the house back.
He has in the time we split gone on two vacations WE paid for and were going together.
I want to do things....I want to have fun....I want to live a little. I am trying to take care of myself. I am seeing my friends a lot. Great support from them. Always calling and always inviting me places. I'm blessed that way. But I want to not sit here worrying about spending anything. I feel like I am a hostage.
I've not contacted him at all. He has seen no reaction from me. I am never going to contact him. I know that's what he wants....but I won't. I rather chew off my arm. I hate him. I hate that he is holding me back.
The worse thing that can happen is that you will have to take him to court and you have already accepted it as a possible reality, don't let him take your health, your time, your energy and more in general than what he has already taken.
Do everything you can to be independent in your mind.
I do believe that he will not carry this to court, something in his actions tells me that he will be too afraid to carry this to court. Temporary taunting by an abusive ex.