sublime76
Status: "The quality of your happiness depends on the quality of your thoughts"
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- I have just recenlty, after years of struggle and research, I have come to the conclusion I no longer belive in God. My longtime GF does, very much so. I need ot to tell her, but, I am worried she will leave. When we first started dating, I...
- I’ve been divorced for two years now, when my son was 10 years old. So, he remembers and totally understand the reality of divorce. He, seemed to take it well and me and his mother quickly understood we were better off divorced than married. ...
- A brief back story, in case there are some who havent read my last posts about a rough relationship with a crazy ex-girlfriend.It was an emotionally abusive and controlling realtionship where she took advantage of my kindness and heart. It ended...
- Anyone been in thsi situation.......The person I want is not good for me and will never be an option after our break up. The person that is good for me, and who Im currently with, is not the person I want. Its a lose lose situation......
- Why is so freaking hard to let go of someone who was absolutely wrong for me? How can a person bring out the very best in you yet be the wrong person for you? She was manipulative, she lied, used people, self absorbed, conceded, mean and abusive...
- I dated a woman for close to a year, our relationship was full of turmoil and drama and hurt. For those of you who have read my previous posts, know what I am talking about. This woman lied, manipulated and caused havoc in my life. I left because...
- Can anyone tell me how to get images of my ex- and her new significant other out of my head? Its been weeks, and I torture myself with thoughts of them doing things that we used to do. Things as simple as watching a movie to the more graphic, I am...
- This is my story, and if anyone is willing to read it in its entirety and give me their honest opinion......it will be greatly appreciated. Here is goes.Im 40 years old, I was married for 15 years, I had an affair as did my wife, we decided to...
- Divorced after 14 years. I have an 11 year old son. Met an amazing women about 3 months after my divorce. And of course. Thought I was in love. Probably the definition of rebound relationship. Things were great at first. She has three kids with...
- I have a predicament...... I am a divorced single dad of a 10 year old son who is my life. Hes a great kid, very reserved, and he had a great life until me and the ex decided to part ways about 6 months ago. He still has a great life minus the...
- I am a divorced father of one 10 year old son (week on/week off with the ex). I am dating an amazing woman who has three children, 12, 10, and 7. Who live with her full time. (every other weekend with dad). I have met her children and they are...
- How is it possible that someone can have such a hold on your life and effect so much of your life? The fact that they take up so much of your thoughts? That they make you do crazy things and act differently? That they occupy every waking moment? ...
- I really think I am depressed, and not just sad, clinically depressed. I really think I need professional help and not talking marriage counseling. I am not a proponent of taking medications, I don't even like taking Aspirin, has anyone gone...
- Anyone here, who was or is the cs, who is or was with the ow/om, who is single, and that om/ow cheated on them? My question, was it an eye opener or did they justify the ow/om reasons they gave. It sounds like a really contradictory situation, but...
- Its been 3 weeks since I had last contact with the OW since DDay #2. (Same OW both times) Its been really tough, I still think of her constantly, almost obsessively. Its hard to believe that this woman I was and still am in love with for the last...