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- True Story - So my STBXW mother was cheated on by her father for 3 years before anyone finding out.When everyone did the father would then openly cheat and spend the weekends with the mistress - yes - WTF - give my STBXW mother some money for the...
- What the heck is the definition of a "Alpha Male" in these day and ages? A Leader of men? a guy that shows extreme confidence? What about a guy who is a billionare but is a wimpy guy? is he still considered an alpha male cause he can buy...
- I was having a discussion last night with my GF and she said that women in general are very "competitive" with each other. That when she got divorced and saw her ex with his new girl for the first time she didn't even look at "him" - she only...
- This is more for the WS - when DD was discovered of course it was the shock and awl aspect I went through - followed by the memories aspect.I found out before my WS did anything - was in the beginning phases - the stupid texting like a teenager -...
- My WS when she was in the begining stages of her A said to me some of the dumbest - as well as just unkind things because I can now see she was getting a major ego stroke from AP and felt like she could say anything to me. Some of the crap she said...
- Just another one of my questions - How many people on this support group actually got back with their WS after finding out of their CS/WS -- and how long did that process actually take or is it still taking --- meaning once you found out -- did you...
- I admit If I see a cutie girl walking or whatever I admire - but thats it. Im a dude/not dead.But for ladies when walking etc do you ever notice a handsome guy or are you all so focused on other thoughts that you dont notice much?May sound like...
- Another one of my questions I was never cheated on before my wife had her affair with the mayor of crazytown some slime ball 9 years older than both of us who had 2 previous divorces a protection order domestic violence bankruptcy a list of...
- My STBX in her discovery documents - has written down that she has borrowed 15,083 from her AP for her attoney fees - food - gas etc. First, I find it odd as crap the dude would let her borrow anything - that must be why I have been told he is...
- I think this is a very important piece to this puzzle for all BS out there.What is it that the AP said - even the details - to get you - the WS to be draw out of your marriage and to give it all up?What was the approach like - how did you meet?and...
- So this is a story that my GF told me about her ex father in law.Her ex father in-law cheated on his wife 5 times that everyone knows of.All cheated was with members basically inside his own family. They were all with the wives of cousins or 2nd...
- So if the BS has the phases of Denial Anger Depression Acceptance we move on what happens to the WS in their stages in the FOG?I can assume excitement in the beginning then after the FOG lifts its ok not so exciting anymore dude/girl doesnt...
- What happens when some women turn 40?I am not saying all women have a mid life crisis like all men dont have one either but there are a lot of women that I know out there that once they either turned 40 or were 39 something snapped in them and...
- I would like to start this topic that affairs are like drugs. My STBX pretty much acted in ways that only a person on drugs would act when she started her affair with some low life she meet at the gym. (we had been married for 10 years / 2...
- ok - so i have been in realtionships - growing up I dated a lot of girls - I moved to miami mainly because of the beautiful beaches and beautiful women and just wanted to find one that came from a good background - etc and get married have kids...