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Crazy things WS says

onyx11
onyx11
My WS when she was in the begining stages of her A said to me some of the dumbest - as well as just unkind things because I can now see she was getting a major ego stroke from AP and felt like she could say anything to me. Some of the crap she said was.

1. You do too much home remodeling around the house.
2. You watch too many travel channel and documentary shows.
3. Let me go for 6 months followed by Let me go for 10 months.

My reply "you can go" but there will be a time when you try and come back and I will look at you and say remember when you said let me go -- well now you can't come back.

what crazytown "fog" things did you hear?
deleted_user
deleted_user
I never wanted to be a parent.

My kids will be better if I am only a part-time parent.

and the kicker ....

God wants me in his life, to take care of him, its God's will!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I just want ot sleep, I'm too tired for sex....my phone is charging, i don't like to text, you can't bother me at work, I can't answer the phone or text while I am at work, I have to stay out overnight for work, I could go on but they were ALL LIES, and in the same voice he now wants me to hear him telling me the "truth"....I am having a lot of trouble with that....he would be talking to her at the SAME time he was talking to me, tellin us both...how wonderful we were and he couldn't imagine his life without either one of us, of course we thought we were the only one hearing his words, lol, joke on us I guess....yup still a lot of rage in these bones....
hyperlost
hyperlost
You are way out of shape, You never really wanted me, if you really liked me we would have had kids right when we got married. have you cheated on me, I hate you, I wish you would die. I never have liked to kiss, I don't like to be held at night nevar have, you make me feel clausterphobic.

This is when I knew things were going very bad. Before these outbursts when I was done with a semester of school. But the big key I think looking back was before this happened there was a period when she just let it all go. no complaining about dishes in the sink, no complaining about anything. for a while I was actualy happy about not bing nagged all the time. I actually started writing her cute texts and telling her how much I appreciated her letting me work hard at school etc.