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- Not sure if this is the best question for here but here goes.A recently divorced friend of mine was asking about dating - He wanted to know where the best place to meet people "good" girls at. He didn't want to go to the bars etc.I told him dancing...
- I have pretty much come to the conclusion that most CS have a major feeling of inadequacy for whatever the reason in their life and in their relationship. This normally in the form of multiple reasons. Communication, achievements, parenting...
- I think if you are with someone (in love) being happy around that person - ultimately that person should upgrade you - with whatever that definition is for you.I think it could be intelligently, broading your horizons and making you happy it could...
- That your CS/STBX/EX tried to "break you" - or bring you down to their crappy level - because they were very much broken?I know its a open question - but I like starting conversations.
- I had plenty of opportunities when I was married to do this or that but I felt as if I had an true obligation to my marriage and family (my boys) to not go into the dark side of things. That the family was way more important than some chick and...
- I know a girl whos mom cheated on her father with her fathers brother and had a child. This completely devastated the father obviously. That is a level of deceit that is messed up. The brother was always completing with the brother for...
- This is a summarization that I think most cheaters have a major communication issue and instead of trying to work and figure out how to improve that and verbalize their perceived issues, That they use a sledge hammer to shake up the core around...
- Motherly Instincts or lack thereof. A lot of people have pointed out to me that my STBX has basically no motherly instincts the definition of that would be the obvious - added with putting themselves first before their own children and not wanting...
- Most of our discussions are geared towards cheating - why they cheat etc.Is there anyway to avoid - look for someone who pretty much is guareenteed not to cheat?is there anyway to find someone who will not cheat on you? a characteristic something...
- Guys vs girlsThis is more of a gender question (general question)I know at least I as a dude /guy really dont need much attention I actually need less attention to enjoy from people - quiet time (man cave time) and time to play whatever...
- Cheaters dont like to be cheated on.I was having a conversation with my GF this past weekend and she brought up a good story about cheating for those who dont know I have been dating someone now for about 8 months who was married for 14 years and...
- I am reading a lot about people and their hidden phone situations finding the secret phone. Which brought back memories for me.My STBX had a secret phone first lied about it then said because I was checking on her she wanted her privacy so she...
- I am really hoping there is someone out there that can give me some guidance. I have 2 small boys and my STBX is from the country Colombia.I have a divorce agreement here in the US and want to register the divorce in Colombia in case the STBX tries...
- A lot of these affairs from what I have noticed are about CONTROL and getting lots and lots of attention both negative or positive.Especially the W cheating on the men could go the other way just as easily though.But its you dont have control over...
- In life in general we have risk assessment - if we do this or that there are risks involved involved in pretty much everything we do in life. Some bigger then others.When we make the decision to get married whether concisely or not we assess ...