Yes, I do notice. In a different way since I have been married, as in "good looking but not for me", whereas before it was more about noticing and assesing wheather I am going to do something about it. But regardless - the answer is definitely yes. Ok, with the exception of first several months after DDay. Then I didn't notice my own feet.

from a guys perspective. i made the choice not to look and not to notice. in the past i had dated a few insecure women who would get jealous any time i even noticed any other woman attractive or not.
My significant other, she makes a point to comment on any guy se sees that is attractive, part to make me jealous i believe because she points out things about them that i dont have. but i am not the jealous type, and i just let it roll off of me.
I think no matter what people are going to notice guy or gal unless they make the conscious choice to not notice, and that is harder than it seems but is possible.

Yes, yes, and yes.

I absolutely have & still do notice an attractive man but that's just it....it's just a "wow he was good looking or that cologne smells good!" Never thought about saying hi or being flirtatious. I also notice pretty women but not in a sexual way. like nice outfit, shoes, haircut etc. But now, ( and I am NOT tooting my own horn but i am an attractive woman) when I get a "look" from a guy, I actually sometimes "look back" or respond briefly to a compliment whereas I NEVER did before. Guess in some ways, it's feels nice to be told you look pretty or have nice eyes when you're worn out from DD!

Notice and do something about it are two different things. Turning your head, making comments or locking the eyes with somebody is already doing something (or even doing a lot). This is not noticing, this is letting the woman you noticed know that you find her attractive. This is an invitation. If the women you were dating were noticing you must have been doing something. Sorry :-(, no offense meant.

I do notice, just like I notice any other beautiful/pretty things. And nothing comes with it. By the way I equally notice beautiful/attractive/well dressed women.

Of course we notice but we don't dwell on it like men seem to do. We aren't dead either. Nothing like a good looking man with a nice body.
I think that there is a difference between noticing and not being able to keep your eyes off of someone. Ive had men literally stare at me,with their partner present,to the ridiculous point. Just a different way to look at things, most women don't mind a look but it's a little obnoxious to be stared at. Perhaps, if your partner is insecure about you looking,it could be possible that you are starring.

Hell yes!!!! I very rarely dwell on it or fantasize about it though.

I think Jay's first post explains it very well. Sometimes I notice,but it's a very unconscious kinda, "Oh, he's not bad looking.", in my case. I don't dwell or fantasize. And I don't even look too long, it's about noticing, and being able to appreciate that someone else looks nice, without it being anything else really, without giving any undue attention or thought.

After the first time I asked my H for a divorce that's when I started to look at guys like...."hmmmm would I approach him? What about this guy?"

Distance is also very right, my H used to be very jealous, if I even looked in another guy's direction he'd swear I was checking him out. There had been times I didn't even see the guy he was talking about. So I had to make a decision to really avoid making eye contact with other guys and stuff.....

Hm. I don't really notice looks. I guess if I saw a guy who was INSANELY muscular, I might look and be surprised/shocked, in much the same way a guy might look at a woman with HUGE breasts... but... I wouldn't be impressed/attracted/turned on.

My needs/desires aren't so much visual, as much as noticing gestures/actions. Chivalrous actions (even, or maybe even especially those NOT directed toward me) go far. My heart will pitter patter if I notice a guy giving his seat up for an elderly woman or tickling a baby or showing genuine concern for the well being of a stranger.

Just my experience, though. :) I am not a visual person.

Oh. But. I should say that if I SMELL a guy who smells "right" to me, again with the little pitter patters of my heart. I've turned my head to see who it was that walked by when some nice smelling guy has walked by. So yeah. I DO "notice" other people, just not visually.

I dident used to. I used to think that guys would never hit on me. Turns out I just did not even look approachable. I was only attracted to my husband. He starred and drooled right in from of me. Now I straight up flirt. I know Im cute. Know That it is easy to fin a man that is intersted. Now my husband doesent look like he used to its strange.