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- I just realized how damn tired I am of hearing the words 'get over it'! Not just in regards to my situation, but to other people's as well. In this modern day society of quick-fix's, everyone expects to get things instantaneously... Including...
- Hi All, I know it has been a minute since I have been on this forum. I have been lost in my own head and speculating about my future. I have come to some big decisions in regards to my life. I am scared shitless. I am going back to school... To...
- Hi All! It has been a while since I checked in! Everything is beginning to go okay. I have my good days and bad days. I am beginning to feel more stable without having so much drama and abuse in my life. I did go through a dark period over...
- Hi All! It was about this time last year that I found this board. I never would have guessed a year later that so much would have changed. That I would have had the courage to leave my abusive relationship and drastically change my life. It...
- We are a support board. We do not care if you return to your abusive spouse, significant other or your family. We do not color what color you are, which gender you identify with or who you choose to love We do know that each one of us are here...
- Hi All, This is a continuation of a post I made in a reply to Bax about Co-Dependency... I got a little carried away and got a little into the theory of why abuser's can't change and we CAN!! I will add that I think that this issue is the...
- Hi All, I am not sure if this should be a post or a journal entry, but what the hay, I am putting it out there for the whole world to see... I used to keep everything inside. I used to be the 'good girl' in order to keep everyone happy. I have a...
- Hi All! I am feeling a little sick around the edges, so I have been laying low and not posting much. Although I come here to read daily. After a run-in with the ex this past week, I was left shaken and confused- and more determined than ever to...
- I had an unfortunate conversation with my ex last night. It was very similar to Livin's conversation below... I felt like I was talking to a crazy person! He totally re-wrote history. I was cheatimg on him, leaving him to go have sex with other...
- Hi All! I just realized, as I was writing my letter to my ex, that every single reading I had done about us or him was very negative. I don't put much stock in Tarot cards or psychic readings, but I do think the can be revealing when certain...
- Hi All! I wanted to post this to put it out there. There is no chance I could get closure directly from him, so this is the next best option. Please excuse the profanity and strong language. It is just a depiction of how I feel right now. Dear M,...
- Hi All! So I was just running a scan on my computer, when I noticed a file I didn't create. It was a downloaded version of my email. Someone (I give you all one guess who) downloaded my email and made a copy of it... Then tried to delete it. It...
- I am sorry I haven't been around to post much lately... I have been consumed with work and trying to put my life back together. It had been decidely more difficult this time around, even though my split with him in February was the worst it has ever...
- I just left my family home. As many of you know, I grew up with a narcissistic father. My mother and him are getting divorced after 42 years of marriage. The divorce is mirroring so much of what I have read here. It is ugly and contentious. Frankly,...
- I just received this email, and really need some help not responding... Deciphering... Not driving myself crazy... From the Ex I really cared about you., but I always took a back seat to your friends and sugar daddies. Always. I can't believe I...