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- I've officially, finally, moved on, and am focusing on mysef. I have fully come to the realization that I was not at all at fault. And the littke mistakes I made along the road were innocent human mistakes (like not calling him when I was upset and...
- My ex fianc and I had a shared email account for wedding prep. When I went to go delete it I saw the account history and in there I found the most disturbing things. There was MILF pornography, just a week after our engagement broke. I was so clear...
- My ex fianc and his family have been spreading in their community that I am mentally disturbed and that is why the engagement broke:( They are a very prominent family and everyone knows them in our minority community, and know them to be great...
- Was just wondering if you guys can give me some insight? II am seeing a therapist now and it has helped, though I am still healing. Recently I have been having some thoughts--I realized I am a very reactive person, and I want to fix that. When...
- [Was thinking today, my thoughts on conditional love versus unconditional love. Conditional love is an uphill battle. You constantly have to prove yourself through positives (gift-giving, constant praise, constant I-love-yous) and negatives (giving...
- I went to my therapist today and she told me something profound. She said we all have antagonists and protagonists in our life to shake us up and have us realize something about ourselves. I consider myself a pacifist and hate argumentation to the...
- My thoughts today (yes I know, this is so wrong and I'm trying to get out of this rut)1. I miss him a lot. I did the clarifying index card exercise and no matter how many times I flip through them, it's just a temporary relief and I'm back to...
- How can I instill inside of me that I cannot possibly help everyone?I started therapy and my therapist said that my ex had histrionic personality disorder, narcissism, and had traits of bipolar tendencies. She said he was emotionally and...
- In class today, my teacher was talking about how there was a research study done to observe how plants respond to energy and if emotions/words have any substantial effect on growth process. Two separate plants were placed in different rooms, and...
- I was speaking to a mentor about my ex, and how to heal. Some things about my ex. When he was angry, he said: "Whatever. I'm done. I don't even care anymore." "I'm afraid to have kids with you. You're mentally immature for marriage." "You can take...
- I have set up an appointment with a therapist and I think it will really go well. I'm ready for the healing process. You guys are right--emotional abuse is something that time itself cannot heal. A mental and psychological detox is needed. I can't...
- I posted my story previously about my ex and his emotional abuse. I am now realizing he was very manipulative as well. Once it ended I feel all his words are resurfacing and I am seeing them in a different light, since I was in what it seemed like a...
- Before engagement he was my best friend. Charming. Funny. Extremely caring. I could confide in him, trust him. He was the "calling you in the middle of the night to make sure you're okay" when I mentioned I had a bad day kind of guy. It changed...
- Before engagement he was my best friend. Charming. Funny. Extremely caring. I could confide in him, trust him. He was the "calling you in the middle of the night to make sure you're okay" when I mentioned I had a bad day kind of guy. It changed...
- Before engagement he was my best friend. Charming. Funny. Extremely caring. I could confide in him, trust him. He was the "calling you in the middle of the night to make sure you're okay" when I mentioned I had a bad day kind of guy. It changed...