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- I need to know something. My alcoholic son has begun to express feelings of low self worth, self image, & told me his dad & I made a big mistake having him. He says he is worthless & may as well not even be here. I asked him if is suicidal & he said...
- My semi estranged son just sent me the nastiest text. I gave my youngest son his cell phone number & evidentally he sent him some nasty texts last night. My youngest has a bad drinking problem & loses ALL of his filters when he's drunk. My...
- The last 5 days have been hell. I was finally, after much prayer, finally feeling somewhat normal, until my drunken son called an hour ago. He asked for a phone number I have given him at LEAST 5 times in the last 6 months. I had to repeat it 3...
- I had my grandson last night. My son, his dad, is the one Im semi-estranged from. I mostly deal with his GF when it comes to my GS. Anyway, last week when my GS was here, he had a pretty bad cough. My sons GF said "Yeah, he's had that cough for a...
- I was reading an article today on the internet. I never knew this before, but we do have "heartstrings" that are thin tendons that connect muscle to our heart valves. Whenever we have a traumatic or very stressful experience, they stretch & break...
- My youngest son, who is an alcoholic. called last night. He started a new job, which he hates. He quit his last job, which he liked, because he got drunk one night & started listening to his coworkers telling him he needed to quit because he would...
- My youngest son called last night. He had been drinking a little bit, but wasn't full-blown drunk. He started a new job 2 weeks ago. He quit his last job about a month ago, for stupid reasons. Now he is working at a job he hates. He has always been...
- I was talking to my best friend today, who also has an estranged son. I told her I have built up a wall around my heart, so no one else can hurt me. Almost everyone in my life, family & most friends, have hurt me. Some worse than others. I used to...
- Today, my husband went to use his Craftsmen tool set, which I gave him for Christmas many years ago. It's gone. He asked me if I had used it or knew where it was. I looked him and said "you KNOW where it is". This is just one of about 10 items we...
- My son called my husband on Saturday afternoon, stone cold sober. Then, about 2 hours later called ME, & was drunk as a skunk. I don't understand why he does this. He knows how much it upsets me, but has done this several times. Am I being punished...
- If you read my earlier post on my youngest sons phone call to me, this is how my husband handled it. My son always calls to spread his cheer to my husband after calling me. Hubby got MAD at him, told him to pull his head out of his you-know-where,...
- My youngest son called drunk again last night. His girlfriend dumped him ( I was afraid of this), & he said he is done with women. This is his first girlfriend, I know he is hurting. He is so soft-hearted & vulnerable. I suspect she didn't like the...
- My youngest son called drunk again last night. His girlfriend dumped him ( I was afraid of this), & he said he is done with women. This is his first girlfriend, I know he is hurting. He is so soft-hearted & vulnerable. I suspect she didn't like the...
- My 22 year old son called again last night. My first instinct was to not answer the phone. He was drunk of course, but denied it. He went on & on about how if his girlfriend dumps him, he is finished with women. Also, he claims he is "fine" with...
- I was thinking of my ES yesterday, which I do every day, and the though occurred to me "What if I never see him again?" The thought was ludicrous to me. My mom left when I was 10 & I never saw her again. I wonder if she felt the same way? I think of...