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- I light a candle almost every day for the parents of this forum. I just have a feeling that things will get better. I know my ES started counseling this week, & my youngest said he sounds better than he has in months. Some day, our EC will realize...
- My husband is not the bio father of my ES, but we have been together since my ES was 5 years old. My hubby pretty much raised my 2 older boys with me. He has always been a good dad to them, but treated them differently from his 2 bio kids. I hate to...
- I just watched an episode of Dr. Phil. There was a 40 year old woman who is a SEVERE alcoholic. She spent most of her time blaming her mother for her alcoholism & her ruined life.. She was mad because the mother had kicked her out after years of...
- My youngest son just called to say "hi" & talk. He is such a sweet, considerate young man. He will be 21 in less than 2 weeks. I give him money to help him out now & then & he is the ONLY one who worries about paying me back. I tell him "the fact...
- Have any of you ever played "The Six Degrees of Kevin Bacon"? I think my son plays this game with me, only its the Six Degrees of My Mothers Guilt. He will think any problem he has through, & figures a way for me to responsible for it & blame me for...
- Wow, do I wish I hadn't sent my ES that text last night. He now thinks its okay to send me un-ending texts insulting me. It is different now, as I finally decided last night enough is enough. Im not going to empower him any more. I wont allow the...
- My youngest son accidentally forwarded me my ES's new cell phone number. I sent him a text & told him I love him & hope he is taking care of himself. I got back a BARRAGE of insults, including "you have never experienced the loss I have"...LOL, I...
- I have spent most of the last 2 weeks second guessing myself. My 28 year old son wanted to move home for "a month or 2", because his heart is broken. He did this when he was 20. I didn't have a problem with him moving back home then, because he was...
- I just found out from my youngest son that my oldest son got a new cell phone & number, & I wont be given the number. :(
- Does anyone else find weekends especially difficult? There isn't near enough to do where I don't constantly think of my son. My hubby is a major home-body & doesn't like to go anywhere. We don't have the money anyway. We have been helping my 19 year...
- If you are all like me, you have tried everything under the sun to relieve your depression. I was recently told I may have a vitamin D & magnesium deficiency. I began to take supplemental vit, D & magnesium & I have noticed a marked difference....
- I am really struggling with my decision to make my son pay rent if he moves back home again. He is 28, & is heartbroken, I get that. BUT, I want him to learn how to cope on his own. I decided last night, REALLY decided to hand him over to God, &...
- My son sent me several texts last night. He is bound & determined to move home. For the first time, I told him he would have to pay rent, help around the house,etc..I haven't heard back. I still think he wants an extended vacation. I begged him to...
- My son sent me another text today "Whatever happens to my life, I do love you, you are my mother". I have sent him 2 texts & he hasn't answered. I caved & told him if he couldn't take care of himself he can move home. I don't want to take a chance...
- Hello to anyone that remembers me. I decided to cut myself off from online support groups for awhile. I am sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings by disappearing like I did. My situation has not changed with my oldest son. His girlfriend dumped him on...