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- SO, as you know, I broke my rule and allowed our son to come home for a limited time ( I remind him daily: tick tock tick tock)....as he is starting to really get his crap together and was at the end of his 'rope' and just needed some help, not...
- out of joking on a post, here it is a SPA for MOTHERS/WIVES/WOMEN of addicts...a place to run away and get some freaking peace and quiet and be surrounded by people who absolutley understand. With classes/meetings and massages and pedi/medi parties...
- We have a 22 year old son who is an addict, the big H, oxy, you name it he's done it.....he was in the Navy at 17, VERY promising, seemed to love it, had a 2 1/2 year contract, deployed, bought a car, paid it off in less than a year, SO very proud...
- Before the sun rises, I waken to find anger in my heart.This is how my day starts.I can't see beyond the mess that you are now, I can't see that person with dreams,I see the drugs, the lies the deciet.The I love yous don't mean much anymore,It's...
- I'm venting it out here because if I don't I may LOSE MY MIND.I should've listened to everyone around me. I should NEVER have let him back in the door. I WAS happy, I was accepting of how his life was and is and I was living fine with that. My...
- So, as my plight continues with our son. He has no where left to go, he has used up his chits at all his friends etc....and it is NOT that he is not trying to get his life together. I have made it a point to extend my time to help him get some...
- SO, as my 'plight' goes on with my son.....I HAVE seen many positive changes...THIS I believe is his finally getting to the point of 'I'm SICK of living like this...." homeless, couch hopping, and finally reaching the END of his 'chits' with...
- So, I was hopefully optomistic the other day, but naturally the other shoe drops, on my head...I get a call from my son yesterday late afternoon: 'can I spend one night at home, I'm here in town and I don't have anywhere else to go and I dont' have...
- Well, not sure if it is as I see/hear it, but my son has been calling me daily, just to check in so I don't worry about him. He is with his new GF alot, whom again I think is adorable, and he is now washing dishes a couple nights a week and working...
- I was just having lunch and thinking by myself, I feel so badly for my son. I know when he calls and he sounds all cheery and happy and assures me that he is doing well and not to worry about him that he is working it out and getting his life back...
- So, as you know, my son, 22 is an addict to Heroin, oxy, shrooms, pot, anything.....after a couple years of the 'revolving' door, I finally had enough and threw him out...he has no job, no money, no place to go although for two months now he has...
- So my son, who is 'couch hopping' as we couldn't enable him any longer and threw him out, called yesterday and we were talking and he is trying to 'get his life together' and I asked him how the 'job search' was going and he asked this...
- *Exhale*** So, he is dropping by today. With his GF...she is a cute little thing, sadly she has an eating disorder for which she is constantly in and out of a facility. She has just gotten out and of course, he with nowhere to go, is staying with...
- So, my son (opiate/hallucinogens/pot addict) has a new relationship he had gotten into earlier in the year, she was a 'friend' but has become more. I've met her, she is adorable, a little 'different' and VERY VERY THIN! She has an eating disorder...
- As we talk about our addicts, I see alot of folks who smoke cigarettes and I just wanted to put this out there as I struggled so hard for 38+ years to quit smoking and finally did it, this may help someone, hopefully?I started at age 9, ick....I'm...