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- hi friends...just a quickieif youre talking to someone , trying to resolve something and they are looking at you in disgust and say oh just go away,,,can this be classed as a devalue / discard?.... or even rejection and abandonment??thanks
- Hi and hello again..I have a long time friend who i have known since being very young.. its one of those relationships where we can go without talking for years and as soon as we pick the phone up its like we talked yesterday... shes very dear to...
- hi... im back through no fault of my own but im back in the relationship and its started again... yes i know im stupid.. yes i know i should know better... but my depression is looming again and im trying to reason with him until i can get out...
- Hi friends....i have heard back from the court that i can use the family car...He sold my car when i left and got a new one but the stupid so and so put my name on the car also so ive been telling my solicitor if my name is on the car its half...
- Hi ... im a 51 yr old lady who has just left a 29 yrs abusive relationship and has been caring for my mother and father who have health issues... I also have CFS / M.E. and generalized anxiety disorder and PTSD because of issues with my mother and...
- Hi friends....before i say whats happened i just want to say im doing good.. healing really well and im managing on my own well too....im almost 1 year out and i never thought i would get this far.. but i am...In 2001 after 9/11 we lost my...
- Just wanting to see what awful things your abuser said to you or told you that made you think is he just joking or is he serious?
- Hi friends old and new....i am now 7 months out with little contact ...he keeps phoning me and bumping into me and asking me to come home and that the door is always open etc...i have told him hes got a problem that needs sorting.. and until he does...
- Hello friends. x xi am so sorry that i havent been able to get on here...I was in refuge for a long time but although it was horrendous being in there because of things that were going on , but in another way it was the best thing.I am now in my own...
- hello friends xxi think im learning a lot and i think im seeing a lot clearer now.i remember a conversation i had with him before i left......i was trying to tell him about boundaries and that i should have set them long before.......and that we...
- So.....im reading a lot of stuff on the Melanie Tonia Evans site.The healing she does helps us get our authentic belief system back.So can someone tell me....how is it changed in the first place?are we THAT brainwashed by abuse and love that we let...
- Are we all codpendant......??....the people who have experienced this.......are they codependant......?i have just found a few articles that suggest i probably am......it does make sense.....i have never really had self worth due to my...
- Hello.....as a lot of you know i have 2 daughters....26 and 22.Our 26 year old actually moved out on her 18th birthday , i think ive told you before....her dad told her that she wouldnt amount to anything.She's proved him very wrong.....Our 22 years...
- I have realised that my abuser ( husband ) is Narc and Pass Aggress.....sometimes when he would talk to me he would talk to me as if he were educating a child !....for instance....he would tell me things that where blatentley OBVIOUS and in front of...
- I am having lightbulb moments all over the place while in the refuge / shelter......im waking up in the middle of the night thinking WHY THE HELL DID I PUT UP WITH HIM for all that time...........I just keep going over and over some of the things...