Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
I am having lightbulb moments all over the place while in the refuge / shelter......
im waking up in the middle of the night thinking WHY THE HELL DID I PUT UP WITH HIM for all that time...........
I just keep going over and over some of the things he said......
he would rage in my face , i would get upset and while i was upset he would just watch me , as though he was stone........then when i had composed myself he would say......make a cup of tea sweetheart !!!!!!
FFS...........
when i questioned him about raging in my face he would tell me its NORMAL.......and that i should just accept it as him being him.......YEAH RIGHT........like i can do that..........its NOT normal at all..........its domestic violence.........100%
i was bullied at school from the age of 5 - 15 everyday.......
he would use this to get HIS point of view over.....telling that all this has made me TOO SENSITIVE.............if i dared to say that its not right him saying that or its not normal his telling me im too sensitive he would tell me im amking a big deal out of nothing.........
SO WHY WAS I ALWAYS UPSET...............god im so frigging annoyed at him for treating me like that............
im waking up in the middle of the night thinking WHY THE HELL DID I PUT UP WITH HIM for all that time...........
I just keep going over and over some of the things he said......
he would rage in my face , i would get upset and while i was upset he would just watch me , as though he was stone........then when i had composed myself he would say......make a cup of tea sweetheart !!!!!!
FFS...........
when i questioned him about raging in my face he would tell me its NORMAL.......and that i should just accept it as him being him.......YEAH RIGHT........like i can do that..........its NOT normal at all..........its domestic violence.........100%
i was bullied at school from the age of 5 - 15 everyday.......
he would use this to get HIS point of view over.....telling that all this has made me TOO SENSITIVE.............if i dared to say that its not right him saying that or its not normal his telling me im too sensitive he would tell me im amking a big deal out of nothing.........
SO WHY WAS I ALWAYS UPSET...............god im so frigging annoyed at him for treating me like that............
But now your eyes are open so please keep healing and looking after yourself. You are doing great! All the best! xox
Good for you!!!!
Good for you for
launching yourself
away from abuse
into a BETTER LIFE.
Re: "too sensitive"
They only say it when we
complain about being abused.
What they're really saying is,
"What do you mean? You
don't like me abusing you?
You're too sensitive to
enjoy my abusing you???
Then just SHUT UP,
why don't you!!!!!"
The obvious issue, of course,
is that they're not sensitive ENOUGH
to not want to hurt the person
they're supposed to love.