Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
Hi friends old and new....
i am now 7 months out with little contact ...
he keeps phoning me and bumping into me and asking me to come home and that the door is always open etc...
i have told him hes got a problem that needs sorting.. and until he does i dont want to talk to him...
He still insists that he hasnt got a problem and that i think too much etc... and that we can make it work...
anyway i had to go back to area where i lived today to see daughter who isnt well , he turned out at daughters house... i had very little to say to him... he said if you dont come back ( laughing while he was saying it )... if i dont come back i could always get a gun and shoot you like that fella on the telly..
i was shocked.... he said it was a joke and i shouldnt take things too seriously....
its not exactly something you say every day?
2 xmas's ago before i left i was watching my grand daughter as daughter was working...
she was having fun , running around etc... he said sit down and behave... she wasnt even being naughty !!
anyway she was excited... he picked up his army knife and said to her ( laughing ).. if you dont do as your told i was cut your tongue out with this?
i mean this isnt the first time hes said such an unreal thing......
again he was laughing and said its only a joke?
what do you think?
i am now 7 months out with little contact ...
he keeps phoning me and bumping into me and asking me to come home and that the door is always open etc...
i have told him hes got a problem that needs sorting.. and until he does i dont want to talk to him...
He still insists that he hasnt got a problem and that i think too much etc... and that we can make it work...
anyway i had to go back to area where i lived today to see daughter who isnt well , he turned out at daughters house... i had very little to say to him... he said if you dont come back ( laughing while he was saying it )... if i dont come back i could always get a gun and shoot you like that fella on the telly..
i was shocked.... he said it was a joke and i shouldnt take things too seriously....
its not exactly something you say every day?
2 xmas's ago before i left i was watching my grand daughter as daughter was working...
she was having fun , running around etc... he said sit down and behave... she wasnt even being naughty !!
anyway she was excited... he picked up his army knife and said to her ( laughing ).. if you dont do as your told i was cut your tongue out with this?
i mean this isnt the first time hes said such an unreal thing......
again he was laughing and said its only a joke?
what do you think?
Keep a record of every time he contacts you in any way. Take his picture w/your phone when he shows up where you are. Record what he says if you can. Keep all of his texts and emails. Have an attorney send him an official letter telling him to cease and desist from contacting you for any reason. Talk to the people at your women's shelter and ask them what else you can do to protect yourself and your family.
This man is dangerous. Please do not take anything he says lightly. Laughing is a sinister way of him covering up the threat.
Please be very careful. Get some mace or pepper spray (whatever is legal where you live). Take a self-defense class.
Please take very good care of yourself and stay safe!!!
This person is DANGEROUS.
Yes.
Document EVERYTHING.
Abusers HATE losing
their victim. They get
more pissed off over
losing a victim than
anything else.
Please be very,
VERY CAREFUL!
Stay alert and
take every precaution.
Thank You
x x x