Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
Hello friends. x x
i am so sorry that i havent been able to get on here...
I was in refuge for a long time but although it was horrendous being in there because of things that were going on , but in another way it was the best thing.
I am now in my own place and it was very strange at first but now im loving being on my own.
I am baking and reading and just sleeping when i want to and everyone has said i look so much better.
I couldnt see what he was doing when i was still in refuge even......but now im in my own place i can see it all.
He didnt love me , if he did it was a warped kind of love.
We WASNT in a relationship at all....it was an arrangement.......i looked after him , he treated me like he was my dad and he paid the bills and he thought that was love.
Now i know its not.
I will come back more often now that im back online but i just want the people to know...
if youre scared , its okay , BUT DO IT ANYWAY.....because the other side is AMAZING x x x
Love
T x
i am so sorry that i havent been able to get on here...
I was in refuge for a long time but although it was horrendous being in there because of things that were going on , but in another way it was the best thing.
I am now in my own place and it was very strange at first but now im loving being on my own.
I am baking and reading and just sleeping when i want to and everyone has said i look so much better.
I couldnt see what he was doing when i was still in refuge even......but now im in my own place i can see it all.
He didnt love me , if he did it was a warped kind of love.
We WASNT in a relationship at all....it was an arrangement.......i looked after him , he treated me like he was my dad and he paid the bills and he thought that was love.
Now i know its not.
I will come back more often now that im back online but i just want the people to know...
if youre scared , its okay , BUT DO IT ANYWAY.....because the other side is AMAZING x x x
Love
T x
and... this: "i looked after him , he treated me like he was my dad"
thank you for being an inspiration!
Thank you so much for sharing this. We all need to hear good news more often, and don't seem to get enough of that.
You are amazing to have stuck it all out. Now you are truly free and able to do what you want without repercussions,
GOOD FOR YOU!!!!!!!
((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))
Thank you for your
inspirational post!
Sending hugs
and wishes
for all good things.
Hugs,
All the best!
I am just curious --how long did it take for you to feel good or comfortable in your new life??