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- Through the 3 years that i have been trying to rebuild our relationship, i have learned that communication is a huge key into it. I by no means am good at communicating with her, however i do my best to try. I hear constantly in couples counseling...
- I learned this morning that CS's have a very skewed idea of what is fair especially when it comes to the relationship. in our last couples counseling session she tink that i being the guy should do all the outside chores including her garden and do...
- So my significant other and i were asked in our last couples counseling session to come up with some priorities we want for us as a couple to have and to work toward. We are supposed to discuss them this saturday in our next session. But i am...
- This is something i read last night.You can agree or not agree with it, but it might be helpful to some:"Turning your back on a damaged relationship may be the simplest or most sensible solution, one that frees you from the tyranny of hope," "But it...
- so this morning in our counseling session we did discuss the fact of her doing the artificial insemination / ivf. she was not surprised i knew, but angry that i knew the details, as that is an invasion of her privacy and she should be able to do...
- For those of you who have been arround a while you know that i have been dealing with her Affair for a couple years and have had no progress really in the area of moving forward with it, however our communications skils had gotten better. Or so i...
- For those of us that are in the United States, i wanted to say Happy Thanksgiving, and this year I am mega thankful for all of your support (whether you are in the US or not LOL)
- There was a point not long after DDay almost a year ago that i asked my W what she needed from me to keep her from going back to her ex. and she mentioned that she neded me to pay more attention to her, and i needed to be more romantic, more...
- so this past weekend we moved into a different house. And her parents were helping us. Yesterday as we were unpakcing, i was working on the bedrooms and she was doing the kitchen. Her perents decided they needed to put thier imput into anything...
- Last month my w had to go up to Canada (where she is originally from) to have surgery to correct a deviated septum. For any surgery whether it be here in the US, or up there, you usually have to write up a simple statement just in case you do not...
- ok for those of you that have read my posts and comments you know that my w had the a. And that she tends to enjoy spending time with the TV and the computer and her books more than with our kids and i. I do a majority of the chores arround the...
- ok so Minnesota has been the political mockery of the country for many years, first it was Gov Jessie Ventura, then it was the two massive election recounts and court battles over the recounts. Now it will be the government shut down because the...
- Ok so last night we had a arguement over our relationship. She feels we are more like roomates than we are a couple. This is because we have not had sex in a couple months she says. That and she wants romance, and love and passion. I will fully...
- Our counselor recomended that we do a date night once a week. This week it was my turn to plan something. We used to go to the gym together, and i really liked it when she at least tried to keep physically fit. She stopped going when she started...
- So monday she asked me if i wanted to do date night wed evening and of course i said yes. Stupid me assumed that either she would forget or not plan anything because that has been her past history. So when she asked if i was ready to go, she was...