Mossyhorn
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- Hi folks, I went throug an uncontested divorce with my spouse a few years ago, and we agreed on equal joint shared custody for our two children. Ironically we remarried but now are currently going through our second divorce. I want full custody this...
- My soon to be ex spouse has had about a 7 year addiction to hydrocodone pills with muscle relaxers that she was claiming back pain to get. I use the word claiming because she never once told me that she was going to the doctor, never complained of...
- Anybody know of anyone that has abused this and how it affects them? My soon to be ex spouse was prescribed this after she got out of rehab to help with her "pain" and she is eating them like candy, and getting it from multiple docters I just found...
- Ok, my spouse gets out of rehab two months ago, she doesn't act like she cares one bit about my trust issues with her. She is always gone and tells me she has nothing to give to our relationship, she is focused on sobriety, then tells me she wants...
- I find myself realizing I have been manipulated and exploited in many ways by my spouse, in ways I am surprised I allowed myself to be treated that way, in others I wonder how hard I had to try to blind myself to think it wasn't as obvious as it...
- Well after a whirlwind of a 7 month remarriage to my 1st and 2nd wife we have separated again. I just don't think we can recover from so much wreckage between us. I hate it, but think it is most likely divorce time again. I am going to meet with a...
- We came to the commen realization last night that I can't get over what she has done with her not trying to help me heal, and she said she has nothing to give and must focus on recovery, so I asked her to leave, and she did. When we remarried I...
- She left last night, we have barely spoken other than arguing since she got out of rehab. I could not handle the lies, I don't feel that she is trying to maintain a marriage, or maybe she is just not capable of making me happy. It saddens me to lose...
- When my wife cheated, she took away my sense of safety at my home, I lock doors more than I did before. She took the innocence of my children, they talk about other "friends" and houses as if it were ok. She took my want to out of so many things I...
- I am reading NJF's and finished a section about the betrayed partner becoming a private investigator to find out details or check for truthfulness. Lord knows I got my PI license after DDay lol, I monitored phone bills, purchases, I got a digital...
- I am going through some emotional swings lately, some days are good, some not so good.My spouse hid a prescription drug addiction from me for about 5 years, I found out about it and about 3 days later found out she was also having an affair. I...
- My spouse had a long history with ovarian cysts, when we had our second child she had a partial hysterectimy but the doctor left part of one ovary so that she would not have to take hormones. She has been complaining about pain in her side for a few...
- I am fighting all the wrong emotions, I have read and been told that for at least the first year the addict will be self centered and focused on recovery. Day before yesterday my spouse told me that she was going to her meeting during the day, and...
- I deleted my facebook account several months ago and asked my wife to do the same since she was keeping up with folks on there that were all freinds with the OM she was with, however she never did. I just checked on her wall and there are photos of...
- I cant seem to get out of the rut of resentments toward my spouse, our marriage fell apart a few years ago, we did nothing but argue, and it ended when I found out she was an addict and was cheating on me two years ago. She got clean while we were...