Ok, my spouse gets out of rehab two months ago, she doesn't act like she cares one bit about my trust issues with her. She is always gone and tells me she has nothing to give to our relationship, she is focused on sobriety, then tells me she wants to leave, she moves out. She gets bent out of shape when I tell her that she has problems and I don't see why the kids should suffer from it and that they will stay with me until she gets a better living situation. She told me she wants a divorce, so I speak with a lawyer and put my plan together.........going down hill with the relationship getting ready for the single life again right?

She comes over to drop the kids off Sunday morning, asks if me and the kids are going to church and I said yes, she didn't show that morning and I really didn't expect her to. She called out of the blue that afternoon, said she was just checking on us, (she hasn't talked to me at all in two weeks other than with the kids) then she shows up out of the blue to church yesterday afternoon and sits beside me during the service. She said bye after the service and left. I swear I can't understand that woman, I really don't want to get divorced, and go through all of that with the kids, but we are so wrecked that I doubt either of us will ever be happy with each other, just confused and venting, why does life have to be so complicated? Hope ya'll have a great day, God bless.