Should be "am I right?"! sorry.......

thanks cwalla-i will be quiet about it then-i too was just trying to seek out support after being triggered and called names- i get it- i will deal with it on my own.

I moved last weekend to get AWAY from the drama- I'd hate to have to leave here if it turns into drama.....

Iloverus: This was NOT directed towards you. It was for everyone. Your advice has always been very helpful to me. ((HUGS)) This is all I am going to say or I will become one of those people included in the drama. Just can't do it.

drama is best left to movies and plays...

My stbx was trying to tell me, that I'm all Drama!

I just laughed! He is the KING OF DRAMA! Hell, he is making our divorce/separation all drama, not me!

I can handle any drama, even if it appears on here. HOw? I just ignore it..lol. And I have learned, you really can't tell people what or what not to post about on here. But you can choose to not participate and Ignore.

Yes RBM, I was just going to say- IGNORE, IGNORE, IGNORE. It will go away.

yep

I was commenting the other day that I'm all full at the, "Grief Motel" and that there was no room at the Inn. That said I agree with you cwalla, I too have found great comfort and help coming here and sharing stories.

I think the best way to shut down the unproductive comments and drama is to just completely ignore it. That is why when it starts, I never comment on it! Except this thread because it is NOT negative!

I also appreciate the support from this site--whether from something I have directly posted or from reading what others are going through.

I sometimes feel disconnected because I am on the other side of the world and when all of you are active, I am inactive, but alas, I can read! Sorry--I am really tired this morning in SE Asia--long week and I think I am a little slap happy at the moment.

"drama is best left to movies and plays"
nodnod
and news broadcasts, MMA, and the hallways where I work.

IMO.. Drama is going to be everywhere wether it be on a support board or in real life. The important part is to seperate yourself from it. Ignoring it is the best thing and it keeps you from becoming a part of it.

thats stupendous advice, unless the drama is something worth standing up for

or sticking your neck out over

and I've got a long list of those things :)

for trolls yes

I haven't seen any of those in these parts lately

In real life and on a support board people aren't always going to get along. Personalities clash and its easy for feelings to be hurt. Its important to stay grounded and to be true to yourself and know that your the one you ultimately have to answer to. Drama can be hard to distance yourself from depending on the situation I do agree with that.