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- Little bit of background first, been together for 5 years, lived together for nearly two. I am divorced, he always been confirmed bachelor. He is very loving, thoughtful and generous as a rule but when we go out and he drinks he always makes sexual...
- The time has come when we have got to tell the children that we have separated and of course I can't agree with STBX on what we tell themThey are 21, 19 & 14 yrs old, the two eldest have a very good idea anyway because they have caught me in a few...
- Its been so long and I am so tired with all this crap.For you who don't know my story: H had a long term affair, found out went into recovery and counselling and then I found out he met her again and I have filed for legal separation.He manipulates...
- Trying still to get my husband to move out after his long term infidelity.We are no longer intimate and havent been since I found out that he met her again 11 months ago. To say I have had the hardest time since is an understatement, he will not...
- Haven't posted for a while, but feeling very low at moment about STBX.Since his affair d day 16 months ago I have had so many trials to face and am still facing them.He has now turned abusive towards me: he tries to manipulate me into me having him...
- For those who don't know my story here is a very brief outline: h had 2 1/2 yr affair, and possibly an EA at the same time. I tried to reconcile with him. Thought he had finished with her then found out he met her again 6 months ago, that was me...
- STBX was meant to come to see our daughter yesterday. He had a lot on but we worked around it so that he could come home around midnight and spend the day with her taking her out. I was at a birthday party of a good friends and daughter was at home...
- H has been stalking me on FB. Somehow found out my password ,WTF.He is accusing me of all sorts. Well he has been deleted and I have changed my password. OMG I am soooooo furious. How dare he check up on me after he is the one thats been...
- Heres my issue: H works with ow, she has been off long term sick.He announces that he knows that they are advertising her job as she is not coming back to work. he was told by her head of department. He told me this because he is still looking at a...
- Just wanting to know if you think that all cheaters are truly narcissistic or or they just selfish?Often wondered as my cheating h displays character flaws in both these personality disorders. I just can't make my mind up which one he falls into.
- After his long term affair and meeting her again I want a separation.I have made it very clear to him several times and have been to counselling with him and told him in front of the counsellor.Cut a long story, we were both due to go to a concert...
- Right this is a really tricky moral problem I am coming up againstAs anyone who has been following my posts knows that my h had long term A which was over then he met her again. I have kicked him out, but he wants to come back. My h has just been...
- After finding out he met ow again after a 2 1/2 yr long affair and him saying it was over, he met her again (got photos and eye witness account of him and her being physical, kissing, hugging etc) He is trying to reconcile with me but because this...
- Me & him are newly separated after 4 years of an utter nightmare for me, cheating, reconciling, then cheated again with same woman...I HAVE HAD IT . My situation is this, hopping mad again.....he has had to admit to checking my mobile and other...
- 99% sure husband was with ow recently.Found semen stains on his pants, seemed to be a significant amount.Would this be normal, or would he have been engaging in some sexual act for this to occur?Advice please from all the guys out there.