I'm glad you deleted him. As much as that might suck, it is your best option. Let him stew in his own shit and misery when he finds out he can no longer gain information on your life via fb.

Don't forget to change the password on your email account as well- since one has to be linked to Fb. Its not hard for him to send a request to your email, go check your email- get the new password, then log on again anyway.

Good luck to you.

Wow that seems quite odd! What is he doing!!? Are you apart completely? Or is their reconciliation on the cards?

My OH wouldn't have a clue about my FB and definitely wouldn't have the guts to comment, he'd cop it from the friends that know..
Sending you strength
hun, but it sure is a case of the pot calling the kettle black. I think you must confront him further. remind him HE is the wayward partner and needs to control himself..

I agree with both of you. Is he trying to "catch" you sp he can justify his own behavior? Seems strange, and no offense, very childish. I don't quite know your circumstances, but if you're reconciling, then I would make sure to think about (if you're not already) going to marriage counseling so you can discuss this. I wish you the best of luck!

Pot. Kettle. Black.
Childish and very telling, since a guilty conscience is always revealed.

Has he had any access to your PC? Either he's scoping it out in person or he's doing what BA said. In any case, change it all! Don't get too cozy with your passwords. As a good practice anyway, you should change them up quite often. There's always some hacker or new bug that'll beat the latest and greatest protection, so just be one step ahead.

Pertaining to his behavior, he's a jolted cheater (if that makes any sense). Despite his affairs, he still thought you'd be there for him. He never really factored that you might actually find yourself ok without him. And that he is NOT the only guy out there. He's now jeolous and he's showing a bit of enraged insanity at the thought of you with another man.

Yes, it's all backwards and it's all very much deserved. I hope he's enjoying that comfy bed of glass shards he made for himself.

-TheRule

This always seems to come about in the nasty cycle of an affair. I have read it many times and it happened to me. After my W's affair she started snooping on me trying to dig up dirt, and like others have said I believe it is to justify the wrong that they did. It's just one more crappy thing to have to deal with. Again where did we sign up for this shit?

I agree that it is childish on his part.

He is terrified I am going to meet someone else......he still wants to reconcile with me...........I am way past that.

I hate to say this as it is really mean, but I enjoy the fact he is the one having sleepless nights wondering who I am with and what I am doing, Pay back time I guess. Can't even begin to tell you how many I have had of those sleepless nights not knowing what he was up to for the last 4 years....well I now sleep like a baby, he even gets mad at me for that !!!!!

I guess he will eventually just give up, or get back with her again or someone else.

I love what you said Rule ' comfy bed of glass shards'...absolutely brilliant.