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- I'm 53 and still working. Of course, I'd planned a retirement life with my husband, but now all that has changed. I'm not even considering marriage at this point, but wondered how I would feel about being alone in the future.My husband left me the...
- My husband passed in March of this year. We'd been married 8 years the second time and 4 the first time. In total, we'd been together 18 years.I spent most of my life happily single. The first time I married my husband I was miserable, wanting to...
- I got a birthday card in the mail addressed to my husband. It was from a pizza restaurant--an offer for a discount pizza. I'm pretty strong so I didn't break down, but I thought, how many more years will I receive stuff like this?My DH would have...
- I just posted a question about living alone. I noticed some respondents had a dog. I'm now thinking of getting one for protection. I'll be living alone on the 3rd floor. I bought a dog for my father and consider him mine too, but the dog will be...
- Well, in a few weeks I'll be moving to my first place. Strange thing to say at 53, but I've only lived alone for a short 3 months after my husband passed. Back then, I was so numb from losing him that I don't think it really set in that i was...
- I sometimes talk about my husband to people. It suddenly occurred to me that most people may think he's still alive if they don't know me. So today I finally referred to him as my Late husband. A strange feeling.
- Thanks, guys for all the prayer and encouragement during these very difficult times. I got the apartment and will be moving in September. It's really starting to feel good.
- One year after my mother died, I remember thinking how so much had changed. She wouldn't have recognized this planet if she came back.Today, I was thinking of the changes since March 15, 2009. This is the last day my husband was conscious. Here's...
- Couldn't sleep last night and ended up with one hour of sleep. And then, surprise of all, I woke up from my one hour and felt happy. It seems nothing can bring me down. I'm walking on sunshine and it feels so good after what I've been...
- As a widow, I'm very concerned about security. Many of you know I'm moving into an apartment coming up. I'd prefer a 1 bedroom, but they're all on the first floor. There's a two bedroom with a den on the 2nd floor, available next month or...
- Since I'm moving next week(depending on movers and other leasing company variables), I'll be leaving my beloved new pup with my father. I'd orinally purchased the dog for him as I'd always planned to move out in a year. I just didn't expect to...
- Today I went out and found a place to live. This after the second argument before noon. I was just so tired of it all, and finally realized that I was making excuses for my father. I've been doing it all my life. I moved in because he seemed to...
- Another day, another argument. So far six in the last seven days and the day is young. I'm on vacation but I'm vacationing in hell. So I get up this morning and figure I'll move up my moving date. Instead of 6 months from now, how about as...
- I posted earlier that I received a visit from my husband in my dreams. He told me something that was puzzling. He said he was happy in Heaven and that he was studying all sorts of things, especally, Malni. I've done all sorts of internet...
- Two nights ago, I had a visit from my husband. Of course I was dreaming, but I had asked God to see my husband again many months ago. I knew if He agreed, my husband would appear in my dreams. Mom did.In the dream, my husband had left a special...