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- Another person has posted here looking for dating advice. Then the same thing happened: people posted advice while some posted how much they disliked her being here, asking for advice from us very hurting individuals.So, another down and how many...
- Many of us who have lost our spouses have asked God to take them home. Others have considered suicide. I just want to tell you my story. You see, after my husband passed, I too asked God to take me home. I spent many nights questioning why I was...
- I wanted to recommend a book I just read. It's called 'Elder Rage, or Take My Father Please, How to Survive Caring For Aging Parents." The books unique approach of combinging humour with important information made it an easy read. I felt like I...
- Does anyone know how to get rid of the chat bar at the bottom of the screen? It's the one where you can see the number of friends online. I like that part, but unfortunately a new feature has been added to the far left. It's a picture of a young,...
- I was watching the news today. They'd found some dogs who'd been neglected living in some sort of animal shelter--a shelter that was suppose to help them. Anyhow, a person from animal control talked about all the animals being put to death, or...
- The last time I spoke to my father I told him to call me if he ever needed anything. That's before he said that horrible remark about my marriage.Now, I'm glad I told him that. Whereas we can never have a personal relationship again, I can...
- It's late and my mind is wondering: Is my father okay. I don't pick up the phone to find out, but it occurs to me that if he isn't no one will know. No one will know if I'm dead or alive either, so we have something in common.Today at work a...
- Thanks everyone for your input. It helps. Here's an update:You know the sad part about this is that if he were someone I was married to or dating, I would walk out that door and not look back. But a father is another thing. I called my aunt and...
- Please pray for me. I need to forgive my father for something he said tonight.Here's what happened: My husband passed in March of last year. Since then my father has emotionally attacked me, draging my name in the dirt from one end of town to the...
- At lunch my father called. First he called me at work. I wasn't there. So he called my cell phone and I was dumb enough to answer. He said that he needed to talk to me. That he was weak and had a past that made him the way he is. He said he'd...
- I'm so upset, sitting here eating a cake and crying. How could my father say something so cruel. To tell me that my husband didn't want to be around me. Oh, God, it's a test of faith for me.I'm going to have to do something to take my mind off...
- I was stupid, believing my father actually wanted to make amends. He called me at work today all apologetic. And I fell for it. Well, tonight he told me 'no wonder my husband used to work alot. He didn't want to be around me.' How cruel. My...
- This is sort of off topic, but I need tips. I've decided to break off contact with my father and am having problems sticking to it. So, I'm looking for help from other members who've walked away from a parent. How do you do it?Right now, I'm...
- The thought occured to me today that I have two choices:1. Stay and watch my father destroy his life and mine. or2. Walk away and let him destroy his own life.Either way a train wreck is going to happen. ...
- It has occured to me that if I had lost one pound a year, starting at 13, I would now be at my goal weight. And maybe my Dh could have seen me slim, and trim, the way I wanted to be. Oh, well!